I Existed. I Mattered. I Left A Mark.
The following blog entry was written by Arbor Hospice volunteer, Dennis Sparks. Dennis frequently shares his experiences with patients and families and his lessons serve as tremendous reminders for all of us.
“I existed. I mattered. I left a mark. You may not know it by looking at me now, but once I was a person of significance.”
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That is what Lawrence (a pseudonym) seemed to be saying to me when I visited him in his home to discuss a video of his life story, a free service that Arbor Hospice provides for its patients and families.
Just a few years ago, in the fullness of his work and civic responsibilities and his family life, I would have been fortunate to have a few minutes of his time. Now, he did not want me to go even though we had already been together for an hour and a half planning his video.
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Lawrence took me on a tour of his home to see the many products and symbols of his notable career and hobbies.
I was reminded once again that at life’s end we are reduced to a small number of essentials – a few precious relationships and if we are fortunate, a familiar room and skillful and compassionate healthcare providers.
Read more about Lawrence and Dennis’ visit on the Arbor Hospice’s blog.
