UPDATED: Kathleen Edward, 9, of Trenton—Who Had Been Taunted on Facebook—Dies
Kathleen Edward, the girl who made news all over the world after she was taunted on Facebook about two years ago, died late Wednesday night.
After a long battle with Huntington's disease, Kathleen Edward, the 9-year-old girl who was taunted on Facebook in 2010, died at about 10 p.m. Wednesday night, according to Trenton Mayor Kyle Stack.
Kathleen was at her father's house in Wyandotte when she died.
Kathleen was the center of a feud with neighbors, Jennifer and Scott Petkov on Detroit Street, that eventually led to Jennifer Petkov admittingly doctoring photos to depict Edward and her late mother in a skull and cross bones and embraced by the grim reaper.
Laura Edward, Kathleen's mother, died as a result of Huntington's disease in 2009.
Kathleen's grandmother, Rebecca Rose, said she had mixed emotions about Kathleen's death.
"A part of me is angry as hell because I shouldn't have to bury my daughter and granddaughter," Rose said. "I'm happy that she's not suffering anymore. She’s back with her mother again."
Rose said she was feeling very alone, but the hundreds of Facebook posts she received Thursday morning were comforting.
"I was sitting there crying and the only thing that comforted me was all the posts on Facebook," Rose said. "It warms my heart that so many people knew what an amazingly beautiful and perfect child she was."
Renee Chilson, principal at Southgate’s Fordline Elementary School where Kathleen attended, said grief counselors are on hand, but that officials are taking a hands-off approach to discussing anything publicly.
“We are trying to make this as normal of a day as possible for our students,” she said. “At this point, our main concern is for the family, our students and our staff.”
Kathleen and Rose were part of a story that touched the lives of more than 1 million Trenton Patch readers after an article about Kathleen went viral in 2011.
Emails poured in from people from all over the world from places as far away as Australia and Great Britain and from people across the United States. Thousands of emails, comments and Facebook posts to show Kathleen that the world had her back.
Trenton Patch editor Nate Stemen's in-box was flooded with emails offering cash and flowers and everything in between.
For a moment it seemed the world stood united for Kathleen and her family.
"I feel for the family," Trenton Mayor Kyle Stack said. "I would like people to know to keep them in their thoughts and prayers. She was such a sweet little girl."
Rose continues to battle the Petkovs in court on alleged personal protection order violations. The families have a court date coming up that could finally settle a feud that has been going on for more than four years.
The Petkovs and Edwards have a court date scheduled for 10 a.m. Jan. 23 in front of Judge Lita Popke at the Coleman Young Municipal Building in Detroit.
A memorial for Kathleen Edward will be held at Michigan Memorial Funeral Home in Flat Rock according to Rose.
She added Kathleen will be buried next to her mother at Mount Hope Memorial Gardens in Livonia.
"I really want everyone to know how much I appreciate all the condolences and the kind words and for remembering her beautiful smile," Rose said.
People wishing to offer condolences should reach Rebecca Rose via email at roserebecca23@yahoo.com.
Additional information about Huntington's disease including early-onset cases like Kathleen's can be found on the U.S. National Library of Medicine's website.
This story was updated at 10:28 a.m. Thursday with quotes from Rebecca Rose. This story also was updated at 12:36 p.m. Thursday with information from Fordline Elementary School. Wyandotte Patch Editor Jason Alley also contributed to this story. An additional update was made at 4:52 p.m. with quotes from Trenton Mayor Kyle Stack.
Irene Hall
10:12 am on Thursday, January 12, 2012
"For a moment it seemed the world stood united for Kathleen and her family."
For a moment? No sir....forever. We still stand united, as the fight to end Huntington's in our children's and grandchildren's lifetime will be endless. So too, is the fight against bullying in any way, shape or form.
Inesa Jenza
2:17 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
I agree, Irene!
ashley
3:00 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
She's 9 !!! What the hell was she doing on Facebook??
Mykhael S
3:07 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
Greater words have never been spoken, Irene, very well spoken.
Debi Wi
3:12 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
kk first of all ... ADULTS BULLYING THEY NEED HELP ... 2nd if you check it out there are alot of homeschool kids these days and to have facebook is a way that they use to keep in touch with other homeschoolers.... 3rd.. DONT THROW STONES AT A BRICK HOUSE WHEN URS IS GLASS .. in other words if you have a facebook and are saying they are "devils" if they have one isnt that a little off the mark???? My heart goes out to the grandma but at the same time i feel happy for that woman that did this cuz now she has the thought every day that she helped further that little girl go to Heaven sooner and to have the memory of what and how she did what she did..
simple
3:18 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
FOR ALL THE INSENSATIVE PEOPLE AND BULLIES OF THE WORLD MAY CARMA STIRIKE YOU BACK IN SPADES WITH BAD LUCK FOR YOUR INHUMANE BEHAVEYOUR. KATHLEEN IS IN PROTECTIVE CUSTODY OF THE ANGELS NO ONE EVIL WILL EVER HURT HER AGAIN.
Maria Brunozzi
3:37 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
The little girl didn't have a facebook page. The crazy neighbor did. The neighbor got into an argument with the girl's grandmother. The neighbor, an adult and her husband also an adult, The neighbor posted a picture of then 7 year old Kathleen on facebook with a skull and crossbones next to the girl's face. She also posted a picture of Kathleen's deceased mother wrapped in the arms of the grim reaper. As if that weren't enough, the neighbors husband painted pictures of the grim reaper and the skull and cross bones on his truck and then parked his truck in front of the grandmother's home. www.thenewsherald.com/articles/2011/10/04/news/doc4e87774a5923f751452415
Kim Frick
4:03 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
Irene these human beings if you can call them that still will have their judgement day to come. I for one would not want to be the one to face god on that day.
Jeremy Lawless
4:07 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
I feel sorry that the little girl had to go through,i know it shouldn't but it amazes me sometime the lack of compassion and empathy some people have.I know i have had a rough life but i most certaintly wouldn't take it out on someone else!And really that's what you have to say ashley about this is "She's 9 !!! What the hell was she doing on Facebook??"seriously if that is the kind of thing you have to say about this situation than you might as well keep your mouth closed! p.s. sorry these things irratate me!!
Kelly Weaver
4:27 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
"October 2010 — Petkov tells WJBK-TV (Channel 2) on camera that she posted the pictures with the intent of emotionally harming Rose."-(http://thenewsherald.com/articles/2011/10/01/news/doc4e87774a5923f751452415.txt?viewmode=2). Openly admitted to it on television... How can our justice system allow her to plead not guilty? This tape, I am sure, will be submitted into evidence and used against her. I hope she gets what she deserves.
Keep the river front for all of us
4:47 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
I agree that something has to be done about bullying...............but this occurred in 2010................what in God's world was a 7-8 year old doing on FACEBOOK????? What happened to responsible parenting ???????????????????
Irene Hall
5:15 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
Let's set the record straight. KATHLEEN did not have a facebook page.Ever. While there were MANY pages supporting her, she herself did not have a page. As for Facebook being evil, consider this: thanks to Facebook and other social media, attention was drawn not only to this story, but it raised awareness of the terrible ravaging disease that took Kathleen and her mother...Huntington's. I IMPLORE you people not to start sniping at one another or to turn this forum into a "who knows better" platform. A wonderful little girl who had a smile that could stop a war has passed...and YES, her tormentor's ego gets a boost every time you mention her name (I refuse to use her name any where near Kathleen's)...all I wish is for Kathleen's family to heal.They are wonderful, selfless people who have been through the unimaginable. Look at Kathleen's picture...and know that an angel walked among us. To those who knew the family personally...to those who just saw the story and became involvedin one form or another...to those who shed a tear for the passing of a child...we are all connected. Please don't turn it into a lynch mob.
Lydia
5:29 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
Ashley: Why does that matter? Maybe because she was dying they were a little more lenient with what they normally wouldn't have accepted? It's so easy to be critical when it's not someone in your family that is dying.It doesn't take away from that fact that there are scumbags in the world that thought it was funny to torture this child while she WAS alive..why add to the insult?
Stephanie Keffer
5:57 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
Before people posts on threads like this maybe y'all should do some research. Kathleen never had a Facebook so get from under neath a rock and do some research before you post in an open forum. This article was suppose to be about Kathleen who is 9 and died of a horrible disease not parental bashing for something that never was an issue until ill informed people posted on an open forum!
Andi Decker
6:44 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
I remember this story from 2010 started because the Pertov's daughter was not invited to a birthday party. To now read the Petrov's claim to be 'good people' is too late. For making this baby suffer with their lies and taunts, I pray the peace they seek never finds them.
My former son-in-law and his mother both had Huntingson's. The disease is horrible, especially when you realize there is no cure and death is the only outlook you have. They both died way too soon. Thank God there were no hateful neighbors to hasten their demise.
Candy
7:28 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
It seems to me, from reading all these comments, that this forum is really no different then facebook. Many of those people who feel facebook is the devil are posting some of the most disrespectful messages. It is sad how a simple article can turn people into crazy fools. Take note, you do not have to be on Facebook to act like a idiot !
David Daur
8:43 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
I absolutely do not condone the actions of this scumbag adult who was bullying a child but I have to ask... What's a girl who was 7 or 8 years old at the time doing on facebook??? I'm sorry but that just doesn't sit right with me.
Michael McMann
9:49 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
these disgusting petkovs are the lowest form of life. Knowing Kathleen hadn't long to live, they drove a casket on the back of a pick up truck back and forth and parked it in front of kathleen's house. They put horrible things on the internet, all because their kid wasn't invited to a party (their kid is probably just as horrible as they are). jennifer petkov is a disgusting person.
Thelma Kelly Gaston
10:14 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
Very true Irene...
Ashley...read the original story. Kathleen WASN'T on Facebook. The "nasties" across the street started a profile USING Kathleen and pictures of her and her deceased mother. Along with a plethora of other things they did...including parking a hearse with coffin across the street from her house...they did really insensitive interviews.
So very sorry for your loss of a beautiful child...
tyeedwrds@aol.com
12:33 am on Friday, January 13, 2012
How can any sick sadistic person mistreat such an innocent child? Who in the hell could she harm? Any person who is found to have bullied or harrassed her should all be charged full price for her burial. And make a public apology to all parents of children with similar diseases. I get so angry thinking of how someone so innocent and ill suffered from the selfish ignoramus that taunted her! Slow and extremely painful whatever that persons punishment is chosen to be!
Danny Gibson
7:24 am on Friday, January 13, 2012
I must apologize ahead of time for any improper bashing. However, it seems that their is a lot of rude and wrongful bashing going on in this forum. I am new to this story. But I have a son thats three years old that was diagnosed with leukemia a year ago, so I guess in a way I can sympathize with Kathleen's family. And before anyone goes and post about how this was wrong or that was wrong, or this person or that person was wrong. Most of these comments are ignorant themselves. In no defense for the neighbors. They did not put this beautiful little girl in the ground because of their crude behavior, yes it was 100% wrong what they did. But it's not their fault. She had a terminal illness that was going to inevitably (as sad as it is to say), take her life. Were they wrong for what they did, well that's a question that's self explanatory. But it's not doing anyone any good to point a finger. That's all I have to say; other than I regretably offer my condolences to the mourning family of Kathleen. You are all very strong people. I don't know what I would do if my son passed away at such a vital age. I wish you all the best, and hope for better days to come.
Cathy Klindt-Cobb
10:34 am on Friday, January 13, 2012
Yes agree Irene, but what gets me is this perfect beautiful little girl suffered sooo much in her life, at such a young age and if most adults would just know what she knew and spread threw her face and smile, it would be priceless. I hate a bully, that is why people like me are out their who would gladly tie that person up in the street and allow ev1 to stone them to a bloody pulp! I care about people and their feelings, and once u have been bullied and overcome it, it gives you power to protect those who need it. Prayers out to this wonderful little angels family and friends and to the world who didn't get a chance to know her special qualitys that i know would have been maricales! sorry for spellin:)
K
6:53 pm on Friday, January 13, 2012
I've only read some of these comments and I know I don't have any business of running my mouth, but for those of you, I guess KK, whoever that is, so what she had a facebook page. I consider myself a decent mom and my daughter has a page. Someone said it was the grandmother's page, not that it matters, but why would an adult bully a little girl who not only lost her mother from this deadly disease, but now how passed herself. Shame on you for picking on a little child. Does that make you feel better by taunting this little girl? May God have mercy on you!!! That sweet little innocent angel. Bullying has to stop!!! It's bad enough there are kids raised and their parents allow it to happen, but when you have an adult who is so stupid and immature to do upsetting things to this little girl...May you rot in hell!!!!!! Dear God, please be with Kathleen's grandmother and family during this difficult time...
K
6:57 pm on Friday, January 13, 2012
Guess I should have read my article before posting. Sorry. It shoudl be now that this little girl has passed and not how passed herself.
I pray for this family and this darling little angel...Rest in Peace Kathleen. I hope you meet my daughter in Heaven. Her name is Ashley and I'm sure she would love to be with you and your mommy!!!
Joy Southard
9:06 pm on Friday, January 13, 2012
I am appauld to read this about this young child. How dare adults yet do such things to a child. You hear about children. BUT adults. This is abuse in many ways. I believe in hanging. And this is one I would love to have and hang from our Texas trees. Alittle bit of Texas justice. Kathleen Edwards? My love and prayers are with you. But you are with your mother and god. You are away from all hurt. Physical and mental taunting or anything else. You were much to young to go. But darling, you are safe and comforted now. God bless you, you little angel. Those that were ugly will get theirs one day. ANd they will pay double fold. Good night our little angel. We love you .
Briana Saucedo
4:13 pm on Monday, January 16, 2012
i agree with you, andi i hope they never find peace in their lifes not for what they did to her i mean, a 9 year old, really!? what did she do to you guys!?!?!
Al Kalitta
12:51 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
facebook the devils workshop.
people on facebook = the devil
Inesa Jenza
2:34 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
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Amy Ganska Smith
2:37 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
You are dealing with millions of devils then. I am sure you are a god's only true servant, you saint, you.
David Crouse
2:37 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
That's a little over the top, just because one person does this type of thing on Facebook doesn't mean everyone in the world does it. I don't do it, I just use Facebook to keep in touch with old High School friends and get updates on the things I like. It's a social network......not an Occult church.
Debi Wi
2:41 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
kk it is posts like this that starts all this crap rolling... YOUR MISSING THE POINT... a CHILD was bullied by an ADULT.... that child was not the devil even tho on facebook.... GET A CLUE BULLY
paul bastante
2:44 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
LOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOL> You cant be serious, can you?
Chris Breen
2:46 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
facebook doesn't bully people...people bully people...your disgust should be focused on the people that bullied her, not the application that was used.
Medina Daycareproviders
2:51 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
That is such an odd thing to say. Do you know what you sound like?
Robert Drake
3:08 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
Sounds as you don't appreciate freedom of speech. Maybe you sould relocate somewhere that doesn't allow it.
Carol Swank Santell
3:09 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
Facebook has nothing to do with it! "If someone is evil,or has evil thoughts, they will find someone to take it out on no matter what. Alot of wonderful things happen because of Facebook! "That's a dumbass remark.............Just saying
star
3:12 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
@Ashley- This child wasn't on Facebook, her neighbor Jennifer Petkov was the one with a Facebook account. Kathleen's family were the ones who went on there and saw the pictures the neighbor made mocking her and her mother's death.
Ruth Rivera Vivenzio
3:29 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
We always blame things or people for things that happened. The happened because people some people are horrible and don't have a life unless they are hurting someone or something else. The are hurting and have no other way to react but to hurt someone or something else. Very sad world.
italngrl
3:29 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
Haha. I always say facebook is evil. Not necessarily the people on it, but the freedom it gives people to forget about consequences and bully people. Also, people get caught in lies constantly because of facebook. It is evil!!!
Stefanie Trump-Ludwig
3:32 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
Yes, bad things CAN happen on Facebook. No argument there. But not ever Facebook page is the 'devil's work'. I administer and help on quite a few pages dedicated to missing children causes. While we may not be able to do much other than getting the word spread about missing kids, we do whatever we can to help. We are not all as evil as you seem to think.
Superdad
3:47 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
What a silly comment, the majority of churchs even have a facebook page. sounds like you've been in the devils basement to long...lighten up Al, you just might have some good humored fun.
Daniel Kalendek
3:51 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
Our Church maintains a facebook presence, of course sweeping generalizations are the lazy man's out
Vanessa
3:58 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
Wow you are so ignorant. FB brings sooo many people together! I'm in touch with cousins that I haven't seen in 10+ years! Teachers I had in elementary school are my friends on there. Family that live hrs away can see how me and my family are doing. I can tag my inlaws in pictures of my son so they can see them as well because they live 7hrs away. And I am fully offended by being called "The Devil" because I have a FB. There are people who SHOULDN'T have a FB page because all they do is cause trouble. Like that "human" that was bullying that poor little girl. You should really be ashamed of yourself for leaving such crap on this page.
To the family of this sweet little girl, I am so deeply sorry for your loss. I hope one day there is a cure for this disease so that no more parents and family members have to go through the pain of losing a loved one.
And to the "human" who bullied this little girl ---FOR NO REASON--- I hope Karma pays you a lovely visit and you get yours. I really hope you feel like the piece of trash that you are for bullying a child who was dying and her mother who had died. You are so disgusting.
Judith Kenny
4:05 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
Oh please go stir the pot somewhere else.
People think you sound like an idiot ,are you?
Lucy
4:16 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
I agree with the others here, this has nothing to do with Facebook, it's the type of person she and her husband are. Facebook was just another place for her to vent her dislike for this family.
Jeanne-marie Tran
4:33 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
Dear Al,
You are here on Facebook, so does that make you evil?
sharon
4:42 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
you are confused, the devil is these "adults" who used this medium to bully a child over a fight with her grandmother. I think the "adults" should be prosecuted for using her picture with out her dead mothers consent or that of the grandmother, just as you would any other child pornograher. Its obscene what she did and the child is a minor and not hers. Charge them. What other childrens pictures do they have on thier computer. THAT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH FACEBOOK.
dhanuw
4:48 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
Not really... it depends on the person who uses it and how he or she uses it. It is just a social network like any other. Lots of people use it for good reasons. Only a handful of evil scumbags use it for evil reasons, just like anything else.
Ronald Elrod
5:17 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
You aren't right, in the head, that is! How in Hades do you figure that Facebook is related, in any way, with satan? To be honest, the way I see it is anyone who thinks the same way you do is 'satan'. This girl was bullied and died of Huntingdon's disease. How in Hades could you EVER say ANYTHING like this about a 9 year-old girl? You're SICK!!!
Lydia
5:31 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
Al: as much as I hate FB, you actually don't know what the hell you are talking about. FB has actually started movements that have changed the world.Before you call people that use it for good, educate yourself. You sound stupid.
Linda Sinclair
7:28 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
OH are you an idiotic moron...there is so much good, on facebook, it's unreal. I have met the best people on here. There are many evil ones on here too, but you MUST use your brain, but in your case, you can't...you don't have one~
Linda
8:28 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
I do not have FB, not because it is evil, I just would rather talk to all my loved ones....not big on typing, I use this pc to read the news and keep up with stuff!!
I can tell most do not read anything, but just love to *itch!
Ivy Bewley
8:34 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
Sounds to me like Al has been bullied on facebook. And here all you righteous people are, name-calling while hiding behind your computer screens.... exactly like the person in question in the article.
ellvee
10:05 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
Are you serious? That is one of the stupidest comments I've seen on here yet!!!
denise
11:14 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
says the person posting on an open forum... something like facebook.
anita
12:46 am on Friday, January 13, 2012
you are soo wrong but if you dont like face book dont go there
Marty Molloy
2:20 am on Friday, January 13, 2012
fuck you
Al Kalitta
1:01 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
so much for the anti-bully law which is a joke and means nothing
Brandi
2:20 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
A 9 year old child should not even have a Facebook.
cat
2:24 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
agreed.
Jean
2:28 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
It doesn't say that she had a facebook page--and even if she did--what that ignorant neighbor posted was totally disgusting. If adults are having a problem with each other the children shouldn't be used as a weapon. That neighbor would do well to remember that what goes around comes around and it will come back and bite her.
David Crouse
2:33 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
Her family had a Facebook, not her, but the taunting wasn't done directly to them, the person posted stuff on THEIR Facebook and it got back to her grandmother. The 9 year old doesn't have one. From what I remember, they were making fun of her and saying they were going to throw a party after she died.
Amy Ganska Smith
2:37 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
I agree. No excuse for the behavior of others, but 9 is to young.
Diane Dennis
2:37 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
Whether she should or should not have had a Facebook account isn't the issue. The issue is the adult(s) across the street bullying a 9-year-old girl, and a dying 9-year-old girl at that.
To say she shouldn't have a Facebook account sounds like you're saying she asked for the bullying.
If that's what you're saying, and I reiterate IF, then is the way a woman dresses (no matter how provocatively), or the fact that she's had a few drinks (no matter how drunk she is), responsible for her having been raped?
The female adult bully Jennifer Petkov would have found a way to bully her even if it wasn't through Facebook. Don't know the back story but no child, even a 9-year-old girl who is dying and has a Facebook account, should ever be the target of an adult bully.
And chances are, it's not the first time this woman has bullied someone.
Ona Lester
2:56 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
she didnt the neighbor lady who posted pics of her and very rude comments did and she did so on face book another neighbor seeing it told the grandma just so u know the facts :)
Whitney- Christin Downer
3:16 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
I totally agree with you Brandi, a nine year old has no business being on facebook.
There are more child-friendly pages for that, were things are more closely monitored.
I am not saying that the girl is to blame for the bullying, for she is not, but I think that if the parents/grandmother would have been more responsible and kept the child away from facebook, the girl might have never found out such disgusting things were posted!
Diane Dennis.
If a woman get's totally pissed and dresses like a whore, the chances of encountering a jerk who thinks he can do with her as he pleases are higher than if that woman is in control of herself and dresses apropriately.
And I am not saying that that woman is asking for it.
Neither do I say, that the girl asked for it when she used facebook, but the chances for it were higher, not?
I also blame the people who knew. Bullying is against the law, and steps could have been taken to stop that woman!
I am sorry that the girl had to go through this, and I am sorry that the grandmother had to witness this. Huntington is a terrible disease!
Marcy Deanna Carter
3:25 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
@Brandi, cat, Amy, Robert - and the rest of you who appear to be incapable of reading: Kathleen was NOT on Facebook, her grandmother is! And, excuse me; what would it matter? Think of the "social" aspect and appeal of FB - this little girl had so little time to get on airplanes to visit family, go for walks, go on play dates... she was terminally-ill! My goodness - here's a novel idea: Try actually READING the article before spewing your rhetorical BS!
Rest in peace Kathleen; you're now in the sweet embrace of your mother's arms. Sincere condolences to your grandmother and the rest of your family and friends...
Lisa
3:31 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
Seems to me that the 9 year old is not the one that should not have the facebook account, and apparently she did not. Jennifer and Scott should be ashamed of their actions. Kathleen is home now! I pray that she and her family now have peace!
Tina Kenimer
3:49 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
brandi , its on there twice already , the 9 year old did,,,,,repeat ,,,,did not have a facebook account,,,,it was on the bullies facebook account,,,,
Lucy
4:20 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
First of all, she was 7 when this incident happened. Secondly, she didn't have a facebook account. The bully had the account and posted the stuff on her (the bullys)page. Then Kathleen's family saw the pictures and taunts on it when they went on facbook. It wasn't just facebook either, it was live and in person taunting as well.
Butch Likens
4:22 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
I saw this while on my way to check email. It breaks my heart to see a beautiful little girl pass away from this illness. It also breaks my heart to hear that she had to deal with watching her mom die from the same illness. And on top of I find out that there are actually people out there that could bully a small child with a terminal illness. But you know what really cracks me up? While 99% of people can read something like this and be so touched just by her death, There are a few that can read this story and say " She shouldn't have been on facebook ".
dhanuw
4:50 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
That is so true! But, I feel sorry for this child.
Karen Lyons Kalmenson
2:20 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
those who bully should be tried as adults. there must be ZERO tolerance!!!
Janie
2:33 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
the sad thing is that the bullies are adults...the married couple that live next door to the grandmother!!
Gary Busboom
3:45 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
I too, agree with you. I have been the target of an alcoholic bully for nearly one year and have been to court twice, soon a third court date on Feb. 9, 2012. I can't seem to convince the acting prosecutor (Daniel Rosser) and acting Judge Nathan Johnson of Tuscumbia, Alabama to impose a sentence on this man to make him think twice about assaulting me in the future. I am being targeted because of my sexual orientation which I do not openly convey unless I am asked and then I usually reply, "it is none of anyones business". Don't Ask, Don't Tell. I am proud, not loud.
gerard
2:21 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
I can only imagine the pain this girl's grandmother is dealing with. I just don't understand why you would be dealing with such grief by going on facebook.
C Kincaid
2:26 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
Everybody deals with grief in their own way....wow always some knucklehead judging....geez
Susan Chappelear
3:05 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
Because FB emails you every time someone posts on your wall or sends you a message. So her phone was probably going crazy with all the posts. Once she realized what they were she probably logged on to feel the outpouring of love for her family. I know I would have. Any kind of support in a time like that is welcome.
st
4:00 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
Messages of support help in times of grief. I received many when my grandfather died, and it helped knowing I had the support of my friends
Lucy
4:24 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
This is 2012, it's how many people communicate. I don't use it often but a lot of people do. She gets to go to facebook and read many nice things, that would be an ok way to deal with grief to me.
cat
2:23 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
grow up Al... some of us use facebook to keep in touch with friends and family. So sorry for this family.
FRANCINE ABELL
2:24 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
Absolutely heartbreaking! What a beautiful, beautiful child. I don't think she lived next to humans. I'm glad that all her pain and suffering are over. She's in heaven, Her neighbors will be in hell.
Nicarol
2:39 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
I'm sure the fact that this child was so beautiful is at least partly what caused such jealousy in her neighbors, and brought out their true colors. Americans are slow; it will take many more years before laws are enacted to punish this kind of behavior by the dim-witted living among us.
trina
2:26 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
My son as aspberges syndrom and is bullied everyday of his life. This law is a shame. He tells the staff in his school ad he is told to "ingnore it and they will stop". Maybe in the 1940's that would have worked but not these days. These's lawmakers need to ge with te times.
Diane Dennis
2:40 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
Agreed loud and clear Trina! My son has Asperger's Syndrome as well and his experiences have been the same.
Phyllis René Gregg
10:35 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
My son is 20 now, was diagnosed with Asperger's Syndrome when he was in the 6th grade. When he was younger he was outgoing and friendly. Adults loved to talk to the "little professor" from the time he was 3. But all of that changed when the bullying started. He became withdrawn and insecure, avoided interacting with his peers, and became isolated (insulated). I may never know the man he could have been had he been accepted instead of ridiculed. My heart breaks for any one who has gone through the emotional turmoil of being bullied or loving someone who is being bullied. Kathleen, may you rest in the loving arms of our Father.
Bridget
2:28 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
Facebook is great for alot of things i have family that i dont get to see all the time cuz we live states apart and he keeps us all together and then i have started talking to friends that i havent talked to since middle school and i feel for this grandmother in my time of need when i lost family my friends on Facebook where there for me even thou they couldnt be there for me personaly so yes people use facebook for alot But that facebook is used has bulling makes me sick to my stomach i have been bullied and i dont stand for it
ccooperosa
2:29 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
There will always be sick evil people in the world. May they all get their punishment in the end.
Matthew Harris
2:29 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
tis heartbreaking to read the blur of countless young lives affected by being bullied! as a dada, father, mister mom, et cetera, of two sensitive young teenage daughters, (and a survivor of serving as the de facto punching bag from grades 1 - 12) the resurgence of emotions resurfaces upon gleaning the headlines of yet another tender life undermined from cyber aggressive taunts! no matter these shattered stories of promising gals and guys forsaken from the unbearable pressure to endure unkind words (an endemic in my mind), this virtual soap box of sorts one way to sound the alarm that those who participate and perpetrate the net outcome OUGHT to be held accountable! this parent would be devastated if either one of his precious progeny took their life, and he would want retribution served toward those who added insulting mean rants!
Kathleen
2:30 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
Rest in Peace, and your in Jesus' arms now and your mothers.
MikeyParks
2:31 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
There are neighborhoods it's best to stay away from. Maybe Facebook is one of those neighborhoods.
Patricia
2:39 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
It has nothing to do with Facebook, they are physically neighbors. Sick people!
mike
2:34 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
Im sick of the constant blame on facebook for kids being bullied,,, Parents be a parent, block them from the site, it;s easy there is a thing called parental control on the sites they can visit, if they are getting mean bulling texts, block the text function, it wont really kill them to not have these things,, be a parent darn it, control your kids life,,,
tamarya
3:03 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
You obviously do not read to well, the bullies were adults not children, and the bullies lived next to grandma so blocking them from facebook would do zero from their evilness. God people read before commenting!
Marie Carlucci
4:03 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
Hellllooooo, the girl didn't have a facebook acct!! Her neighbors ridiculed her on f/b and her family saw it. Karma is a bigger b**ch than I want to be. They will get just what they dole out.
peter
2:38 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
she is in a bettter place she will be missed by her family and friends, have no fear little one as u cross the other side and will start a knew life and bring happiness and joy to those u come across ^j^
UNKNOWN
2:38 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
Wow its amazing how people do not know when to stop bullying other. Doesn't these people feel HORRIBLE for this girl. Personally, Facebook is not a bad thing. The bad thing about any social website is how you use it. Its human nature to help others not hurt them.
Shelle Berk
2:38 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
The people who did the taunting are sick beyond belief. What is wrong with this world? What happened to common decency and caring for our neighbors? I feel terrible for the kids today. They are growing up in such a sick world.
Thomas Peters
2:39 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
She is an angel with GOD !
Marie Carlucci
4:04 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
Beautifully said Tom.
Jean
2:42 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
Dianna Melroy--I agree one hundred percent!!!
Pam J
2:42 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
I think Facebook is a problem. And if you want to keep in touch with family and friends who live in different states, how about e-mail, or God forbid, handwritten letters. The neighbors of this little girl probably won't get more than a slap on the wrist, but it probably helps that they know how much everybody hates them. Being ostracized is the best punishment for something like this. Rest in peace, Kathleen.
st
3:56 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
Facebook isn't the problem. The people on Facebook are the problem. That's like saying guns are what kill people, when really it's the people with the guns killing other people. Emails and letters may be a way of keeping in touch with long distance family members and friends, but they don't offer the same convenience as Facebook. Hand written letters are just ways of wasting paper and money, since the paper and stamps are not cheap, especially for sending letters out to family members who live far enough away to need multiple stamps at a time, along with the unreliability of the post office to actually get the letters to where they need to be. Emailing isn't as direct and space is limited in them. Facebook offers a FREE service to create profiles, add/block whoever you want, upload as many photos as you want, and the ability to directly chat with your friends and family members with instant updates on each others lives. It's also a great way to reach out to others for a good cause as others have stated. Over half a billion people use it, which gives people the advantage of getting their message out easier. So, again, Facebook isn't a problem. People are the problem. The creation intents for it were not so trolls can get behind an anonymous or distant platform to bash on innocent people, it was to keep people connected with other people they want to stay connected with, or to reach out for help in times of need.
Damien Masters
2:43 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
ive been saying it for years, put a bullet in the head of the bully, no matter what age, and set an example - this is what will happen to you if you bully my kid..but no, weak minded folks will just continue to weep over the graves of the innocents instead of actually doing something about it..sad
Jeff
5:46 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
I’ve often thought the same way. Let the punishment befit the crime with an “eye for an eye” approach. But alas, a “bullet in the head” is not only illegal, but too primitive, costly and easy an answer to anyone one has a grudge with. You may get your wish someday, the way things are going—back to the Wild, Wild West—gun in holster confronting your opponent at high noon and settle your differences. I was chuckling at something one of the commenter’s statement in part about being told to “just ignore them and they’ll stop” approach and that it may have worked back in the 40’s. True to form, ignoring bullies nowadays just further infuriate and entice them to bully more. There is no “right” way, nor answer to best approach bullying. Personally, dependent on the situation, is by applying a legal, yet more importantly common sense approach. Never stoop to their level. Read somewhere that bullies are just lonely, miserable attention gatherers wanton of “love” lacking within their lives and strike at others to receive positive reactions. Go figure. It touches me considerably every time harm, in any shape or form, targets our young and elderly. Everyone in between should know better.
Dayna
2:43 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
So sad for this beautiful child and her family. Jennifer and Scott Petrov are pieces of human garbage. Their address, phone #s, work addresses, etc. should be posted all over the net so that they can never have a single minute's peace for the rest of their lives.
sue
4:27 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
amen i think we should folow them to work and to friends and family let them know and everyone else what kind of people they are hopfully the learn a leason if bullying
DON BROOMALL
2:45 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
YOU NEED TO TAKE THEIR COMPUTERS AND ANY ONLINE ACCESS AWAY FROM AND MABY YOU WILL SAVE THEIF SOULS.
Raine
2:51 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
I think you should be more worried about your broken caps lock key.
Judith Kenny
4:09 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
Will do it as soon as your stop screaming in caps and you learn how to type and spell. Now go take your meds and relax.
terry
2:48 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
its so sad that there are people like that in the world. To pick on that lil girl going through that stuff is horrible. Jennifer and Scott Petkov are lucky they are not in my neighborhood, i wish they were. i would lite there house on fire at about 230 am and hope they didn't make it out. if they did make it out i would make fun of them for being homeless....lol white trash should be burnt, lol
sue
4:28 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
amen maybe there learn because if they were in my neighborhood id do the same burn in hell a**holes
Charley Validum
2:48 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
How did a 9 year old get access to Face Book? Where are the parents? Is there any parental supervision? That is the problem with this poor level of parenting.
Sina
3:04 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
Nowhere in the article did it say that the girl had her own facebook page. The idiotic neighbors were the ones who posted the insulting pic on their own facebook wall for the public to see back in 2010. The only thing I can think to do now is to pray these neighbors realize how much they have hurt this little girl and her family and that someday they will be punished for their cruel actions.
Angi
3:09 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
Charley - While I agree that FB isn't a place for 9 year olds, that's not really the point. Poor parenting isn't the issue here. The cruelty of the ADULTS next door, who would bully a 9 year old like that (a dying 9 year old, nonetheless), is the issue. My daughter is 9, and I couldn't dream of ever losing her like that. Bravo to her family for not walking next door and taking a ballbat to the neighbors for their actions - I certainly would, were it my daughter.
ladydi
3:50 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
I'll tell you where her parents were, Charley V. Her mom had already died of the same horrible neurological disease that was killing the kid, and her dad was working his tail off trying to pay the medical bills. For this reason, according to previous articles, Kathleen spent most of her time with her maternal grandmother. The little girl wasn't the one with the Facebook page. That was her grandmother and her grandmother's next-door neighbors, a couple of *ssholes named Petkov who had some kind of dispute with the grandmother and decided it would be cool to take it out on the kid. THE PETKOVS are the ones who put up the disgusting pictures on their Facebook page. There is no indication that Kathleen ever saw them, but her grandmother sure did, and people who knew that the taunting was directed at a little dying girl called the local newspaper. Get it?
Mindy Davis
2:50 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
What kind of low life scum continues to harass this family. They have lost EVERYTHING. This poor woman has buried her own child, and now her precious grandbaby. The Petkov's are evil personified, and cannot seem to stop causing trouble everywhere they go. There is a special place in hell for people like them!
JChandler
2:51 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
I am sorry this poor child had to die from this terrible disease. Imagine folks, your mother dies from this disease you cannot even comprehend at age 7, and that you too have it. Then imagine a "person" telling you that she is happy your mother died, and will throw a party when you are dead. This was verbally stated, not just a rant unleashed on FB that the family happened to find. The neighbor is a true piece of evil in this world. I hope that karma smacks her so bad she will never be able to repent or cry enough.
Raine
2:52 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
Kathleen is mistreated by her neighbors and the world stood up for her. She dies and the whole world showed their support. When the Petkovs die no one outside their group of family and friends will even know. But they'll probably always be known as the people who teased a dying little girl who never did anything to them.
gregory
2:53 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
facebook is a joke the devil is busy
Robert
2:53 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
9 year olds should be playing with dolls and trains not the internet. Shame on the parents.
Teresa Greenwalt Petersen
3:20 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
Have you followed this story at all? Her mother died from the same disease that she died from. The nasty neighbors across the street set up a facebook page and taunted the family .. I never found any mention that this girl was on facebook .. so no need to SHAME the dead parent .. she was ill .. dying.
Cynthia
3:33 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
Blame the parents ... Blame the parents!! I'm so sick of seeing this. Even if Kathleen was on FB ,which she was not, the family was ... what gives The Petkovs the right taunt and threaten this poor family? And, by the way Robert, 9 year olds shouldn't have IPhones, laptops, surround sound or big screen televisions either. But, they do! Give a child everything and they value NOTHING!
zacb
3:35 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
Robert, Shame on you, for leaving such a ridiculous comment about loving parents of this poor child....Making such a comment just shows how ignorant you are. Not knowing anything about the story and just leaving your stupid opinion. Next time keep your stupid remarks to yourself....gotta love people that think they know it all by reading one sentence.....try reading the whole story next time (if you're capable)
gregory
2:56 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
you got adults that do not need to be on there either,they are wrost than the kids
adcarroll
2:58 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
What a beautiful child and sad that she had to experience such disgusting and hurtful behavior as she was battling her illness. The Petrov's will get what's coming to them at some point. Hope she's at peace with her momma. Prayers to family left behind to grieve this child and her mother.
Debbie
2:59 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
So very sad Do not blame the parents . They were just trying to make their precious daughter happy! The ones who bullied her should be held accountable. They should be educated on what they did and how they hurt this young girl and how they would feel if it had happened to them! My condolences to the Family.
Debbie
amy
3:02 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
Maybe she had a facebook cause she was sick and it was a way to stay in touch with the ONES that loved her! Judge Not!
Loren
3:03 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
Kathleen, is in a better place where Jennifer Petkov can't hurt her anymore!
Angi
3:04 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
What kind of messed up ADULTS bulliy a child, especially one fighting such a tragic battle? Wrong on so many levels. After Grandma wins the court battle, the judge needs to make those losers next door seek some serious therapy.
Prayers to the family.
Soapstix 1
3:04 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
This is so ridiculous. People want to put bullets in the heads of bullies, or take away online access..., or blame Facebook for the bullying. I don't think any of this will solve these situations. There is NO GOOD REASON for anyone to bully anyone else at any time of their life. Since I was a child, I was taught that you never stare, make fun of, hit, or even be rude to other people. The problem now IMO, is that so many people are desensitized to so many things, these days, that unless it hits home, they don't care about anyone but number one.
Jason Simon
3:05 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
People can be evil and bullying is an evil thing to do. I wish it would stop but unfortunately I don't think it wil because no matter how many laws they make people will always find a way. I have not been around for centuries but I'm pretty bullying has so you cannot put the full blame on Facebook. And what is so sad is there are so many things people are bullied about. Every story I read about a young beautiful child being bullied makes me even sicker because no child deserves to feel that kind of pain. It is so sad this child died because no one should not get to live a full life, although it doesn't bother me as much if the bully did not live a full life. It would of been a lot sadder if this child had committed suicide because in my opinion those are the saddest stories because no one should be driven to death. This is the first I have heard about this story and there is one part I don't understand. Their was a big feud between the neighbors were the adults bullying the child of the neighbors or did the adults have a child bullying the young girl who just passed away? Because it would be even sicker if the adults were bullying the parents child. I wish this world would change in so many ways but if it ever does it will take a very long time for it to.
Soapstix 1
3:21 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
Good Post. The problem is bullying has been around since the beginning of time, and it comes in many forms, not just with individuals, but companies, countries, races, religions, and many cruel cultures.. I believe it is a form of the evil that lurks abundantly, and if one wants to grab on to the evil, they will. I don't know what the answer is, because even schools are not doing all they can. A lot of them are asserting lip service, because they are afraid of retaliation of some sort, or they don't care enough to bother themselves. Teachers have a big job and I don't want to demonize them, but I know kids are told, as another poster said, "ignore them", or thy are told to tell the other person they don't like what they are doing. They are told not to hit back, when hit, and we all know the second hitter is usually the one caught in the act. The first one to hit may just get by with it. When it is a daily occurance, I would think someone would notice. I feel really bad for anyone loosing a child, and this child did not deserve the bullying, the same as anyone else.
Jason Simon
3:39 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
Before you call me an idiot I just realized it was the adults doing the bullying not another child I should of read all the comments.
Mildred Champlin
3:05 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
Why do people insist on calling the bullying neighbors adults? They're a rung lower than mean-spirited middle-school bullies who at least have a chance of growing up and becoming remorseful adults. It's so sad that Kathleen won't have a chance to grow up and become as beautiful a grown-up as she was a child.
Jason Simon
3:40 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
Mildred they are adults not because of their maturity level which is very low but because of their age.
Erica Leigh Palmer
3:06 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
Poor little girl! so very sad, and that woman is an awful person! Let the child grieve the death or her mother without a picture posted on facebook, how immature and now the child dies, I hope this woman is given some sort of punishment! Once a bully always a bully! And you can take the computer away from the kids but certainly not there friends. My 11 and 13 year old cousins was not aloud to have a facebook but her friends insisted on it. She made a fake name and only went on it at a friends house.. just because one thinks their child is following rules in their home doesnt mean they are in others homes... RIP Kathleen
donna shetron
3:07 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
We lost our son the night before Thanksgiving 2010. Our hearts and prayers go out to Kathleen's family & friends. We were fortunate that all of our, and our son's, friends...on and off line...were great, caring people. I am glad Kathleen got to witness the worldwide outpouring of good people...to blot out the hurtful attacks of the bad ones. Look for Wil, Kathleen...he's a handsome young man, just 18 when he went home suddenly from complications of Crohn's. He can be one of your big brothers in Heaven.
Marcy Deanna Carter
3:39 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
@donna shetron
First let me say, I am so, so sorry for your loss, Wil was just a "baby" too - 18 or otherwise, your baby and so young. I just wanted to say that your post was absolutely one of the most beautiful, genuine and heart-felt I've ever read. I think they all "find" each other once they've left this earth, in one way or another. What a lovely way to look at this... Thank you (I have my own angel watching over me, with whom I will hold hands with someday too).
Gene Dupree
3:09 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
If they ever pass a law for a hate crime, this should be the reason. That poor family.
God Bless you all.
Marilyn Murray
3:09 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
One of the comments by Diane was perfectly said. No child should be bullied and why in heaven's name would you bully a dying 9 year old. How cruel people can be. No common sense. I wonder what goes on in their house?? My heart goes out to the grandmother who buried her daughter in 2010 and now her granddaughter. How heartbreaking and such a beautiful little girl. May she rest in peace with her mother.
Jason Simon
3:12 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
I just answered my own question I did not bother to read all the articles it was the adults bullying the child and those adults are just sick pathetic idiots.
Elizabeth
3:15 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
Coming from a mom of 4 and one of them being 9 whether or not this 9 year old had a facebook there is no reason what so ever that a so called adult should be saying things like this about her or her mother it is just wrong its not bad enough that the young girl lost her mother and then for these (monsters) to go on Facebook and bully the poor girl I hope they both rot in hell as I hope for all people who bully. Adults shouldn't bully innocent defenseless young children whether or not they have a Facebook. Facebook is to reconnect with family and friends and to get updates on your favorite showa and ect. Not for BULLYING
Donald Kidd
3:15 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
Wow!
Ella Baumbauer
3:16 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
may she rest in peace one of gods children now god bless ELLA
Stacy
3:16 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
I agree with Ashley a 9 year old has no business on face book. But It really is sad that an adult has to bully a child. Hope they burn in hell.
aaron
3:51 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
???!!!#@@$@#%#$$^$^%^&(
ellvee
11:36 pm on Thursday, February 2, 2012
I also agree that a 9 year old should not be on FB but this child wasn't! Do you people not read the articles before you post about them?
Tracy Fox
3:18 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
rest in peace little angel, go fly to your mom who waits with open arms, no one or anything can hurt you now.
Tiffany
3:19 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
Bullying seems to big a big issue here but come on, wht adult bullys a nine year old like really ur fueding with the family and then u decide to bring a kid into it, way it doesn't make u look anymore better then u arguing in the first place what happen to our anti-bully law tho we have one it still doesn't help or stop the fact tht millions of people get bullied everyday why have a law if ur not gonna in-force it?...tho we all have our opinions here!! my prayers go out to the family and at least the child is with ur mom agian!!
Cynthia
3:21 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
We can call her every name in the book but, it won't phase her. Those who bully do so because they have no self esteem or compassion for others. It's also quite obvious by the way she treated Kathleen and her Grandmother she's incapable of any unconditional love whether it be family, friends or neighbors. For any adult to bully a child, especially one that is dying is beyond sickening. Whatever the issue was that started this feud is meaningless. I can't imagine what it's like to bury one of your children, your own flesh and blood and have someone like Jennifer celebrate your pain and agony. And, then for the next four years she makes this young child with a terminal illness, endure more pain than any child or human should have too. It's plain as day that Jennifer has a narcissistic behavior and is only concerned of one person. Herself. I do believe in karma (seen it happen way to many times not to believe) that her payback for what she's done is well on it's way. I can't and won't say that I'm sorry for her, I believe that whatever takes place, she deserves it twofold.
L
3:22 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
People... y'all are missing the point! This story is NOT about Facebook! It's about idiots (animals) that bullied a sick little girl. Chances are, if FB didnt exist the Petkov's would have used another venue to display their acts of heartlessness. No family should have to go through such pain, much less be taunted and made to feel even worse about circumstances they cannot change. Bullies - at ANY age - are ruthless! Bullying is a horrible thing to go through, and a horrid thing to do, but for an adult to find power in picking on a beautiful child (a CHILD! Terminally ill, or not!), is sickening! How pathetic must your life be, to stoop so low... as if children of all kinds dont have enough bullying to put up with... People of all ages have enough to worry about without having to add bullying to their list. And anybody who has enough time to waste BEING a bully, should get counseling and a hobby/job...
CMH
3:25 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
How sad. My heart goes out to her. What is going on in this world?
I live on Staten Island and last week a young girl jumped in front of a bus and killed herself because she was bullied on facebook and in school. A facebook memorial page was created for her and the bullies attacked that also even posting pictures of buses.
zacb
3:26 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
I remember the story and it just blew me away of how someone is capable of such meanness and evil. How someone can ridicule a child and torment a family of a sick child is just inconceivable to me. Just 9 years old and had to deal with not only a deadly disease but also deal with hateful people. It just breaks my heart and just sadness that this family had to go through so much. The people who were cruel to the child and the family, I hope pay dearly for thier torments. They must be miserable people and have the most unhappy of lives to do what they did, well I hope they get what they deserve and become even more miserable and unhappy. My heart goes out to the rest of the family,
edward crawford
3:29 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
She was 9....May she rest in peace...This bullying thing has gotten way out of hand..what a sick world we have created...
Kathy Doll
3:30 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
And you all want to talk about bullying look at all your post .All that has made a mean comment is being a bully,And blaming facebook,those people not only did it on facebook ,but to there face ,So all of you are acting just like them,This story has to do with a CHILD WHO PAST AWAY .Get a grip and get a life,And stop posting about FB,This is what is wrong with the world today Only concerned about your own mean misarble comments .I am so glad i am not friends with any of the Ignorant people posting Mean stuff on here and turning comments about the child to there own twisted comments about facebook,You all should be ashamed of your self,If it was your child you would not like to see this going on it was meant for the CHILD HAVE YOU ALL FORGOT<
Sandra
3:31 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
People, people, people! The issue is not facebook! The issue is an adult that has nothing better to do with her time then harrass another person. Obviously this Petcov person needs to get a life.
Anna Marie
3:32 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
Facebook is the best way for the federal government and the "powers that be" to spy on and keep tabs on people. That's a fact- like it or not.. And since the government already sticks it's nose in too much - I'm not gonna help it along by joining facebook or any other "social" site. Man's inhumanity to their fellow man - I always think I've heard it all, but then I see and hear differently. Depending on what you believe, we ALL have to pay our dues in this life and we ALL have to answer to Him when these bodies wrinkle, sag and then rot...and they absolutely will. God rest that child and her mother. God willing they're with Him.
Kathy Doll
3:39 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
OH please You file taxes,Got a social security card ,Well the goverment already knows everything there is to know about you,They dont need FB to do it,That is so stupid,I am amazed at the stupidy of people.
Carla
9:21 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
I agree with Anna Marie concerning the government. I know for a fact that they look on facebook because a friend of a friend of mine was cut off of disability because of the photos that was posted....Filing taxes doesn't show photos of someones health...So be careful saying its "stupid" because its sooo true....
Kathy Doll
6:19 am on Friday, January 13, 2012
@ Carla Its like saying If you have a cell phone the goverment will know what you are doing anything you do they know,Thats not true.And there are many social site if that was true they would be on all them And there Not,As far as your friend posting pics,disability has agents who go around and check out people they talk to neighbors and they take there own pics,If the person wasnt really disabled then yes they would be caught and kicked of the disabilty.They do not check social sites a neighbor Or someone they knew had to turn them in,And if they are truly disabled they wouldnt have been kicked off,And people like that should be Kicked off cause they want to take the easy road and waste our tax dollars,When it could go toward someone who really needs it .So saying it is stupid the goverment is watching social sites is a correct response cause they dont,And theres nothing to be carefull about when saying that if you have nothing to hide ,Like me,
Susan Welch
3:38 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
Where do these devil children come from? My Son would never ever bully someone. If he were to accidently say something that came across as something offensive or hurtful to anyone, he tries to explain that he did not mean it or apoligize. He is against anything evil. It has to be the parents or these kids get it in their genes. How sad that children that are supposed to be so sweet, innocent, and kind can be so mean and evil. This devil child or anyone who did this will grow older and it will haunt them forever day after day for what they have done. May she R.I.P.
Mustafaa Naimah
3:39 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
She is out of pain and I pray is happy and reunited with her mom..And to all thoes that hurt this child in any way.... remember what you sent out will soon come back to haunt you.... hope YOUR ready.
Joan Morgan
3:41 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
my heart goes out to her family i'm sorry for the lost of this beatiful soul and i'm praying that the family can come to some kinda closure for this baby she will always be missed bulling needs to stop it is a lack of partening skills for this baby to loose her life god will take care of her
Shelly
3:55 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
WOW! The real tragedy here is the Hutingtons chorea disease within this family. I have it in my family and to watch your family suffer is heartbreaking. This little girl had to watch her Mother suffer from this and to be one of the 50% of her Mothers children to inherit it! My heart and sympathy goes to all of her family members she is at peace now with her Mother and probably other family memebers who have gone before her with this same conditon. So, rest little one, and your Grandma will handle the jerks here that tormented you so .
Teri Vasterling
3:43 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
Rebecca Rose,
Every day here at work, I go on-line browsing stories - many touch my heart, some make me laugh, a few educate me but most I just don't bother with. I post comments on ones that dig deep into my heart like the Casey Anthony saga.....
However, when I saw the precious smile on the adorable face of your granddaughter Kathleen I had to stop to read your story.
My Heart is totally broken. Neighbors should be supportive when they know that what lives next door is sadness needing some understanding and compassion. It's Obvious that Jennifer & Scott Petkov have an EVIL streak in them . They should have done everything possible to either stay out of your business or bring some joy into Kathleen's life. I'm not sure if Jennifer & Scott Petkov are children (article did not say such) but I just cannot image adults being so evil. Bullies apparently come in all shapes, sizes, ages and homes. Sadly, Bully Children grow up to be just BIG Bullies.
You are right Rebecca Rose, "Kathleen is with her mother now" and in a much better place than you or I. I am so glad that Kathleen's story has spread throughout many countries - as it should when a precious angle is being taunted by the devil itself.
Depending on what your 'beliefs' are... just know that someday you too will be joined once again with Kathleen & Laura.
GOD Bless you,
Teri
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Ona Lester
3:46 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
My kids have face book and its my choice 2 let them have it just like it is every ones free choice 2 parent the way they want the internet only hurts kids who's parents arent paying attention but i myself control every thing and i mean every thing their passwords and every thing even down 2 who they can add and what games i allow them 2 play it is simple control your kids and their pages and then they shouldn't have any bad stuff happening 2 them online it is a great way for them 2 stay in touch with their family from other states and this girl did not have a face book the bully did face book is not 2 blame for the stupid actions of these ignorant ass people they r grown they should know better i think the judge should ban them from the internet for what they did as some of their punishment it is very disgusting that an adult would behave in such a manor what is wrong with people 2 day!!!!
ellvee
11:44 pm on Thursday, February 2, 2012
I don't know how old your kids are but don't you have to be 13 or 14 to have an account? I think a much
better way if you want your kids to keep in touch with relatives, friends, etc. is to let them use your page for that, not have their own provided they are younger than 14.
Anna Marie
3:47 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
Allison Larson, you should have paid better attention in reading comprehension in school. Now, go back and reread my post because you're embarrassing yourself. And let me see if I can facilitate, oh I'm sorry, make it EASIER for you.I'll try not to use any more big words so as not to confuse you, Allison. I said being on facebook makes it EASIER for the gov't and those really in charge to keep track of people. But, you keep on using facebook, dear. No one is going to take it away from you, now don't upset yourself. Calm down.
bob keller
3:47 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
Anyone that misuses, abuses, or taunts a child, you may escape what man should do to you, But I see your name in a book. you will, somewhere, sometime, suffer as you cannot even imagine.
Michele
3:49 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
There should be a law passed for bullying.. Three years or more in jail for bullying and show these miserable lowlifes that they will pay for all the misery they cause.. Enough is enough, all we hear today is these kids getting bullied and then taking there lives for it.. Put these animals behind bars where they belong!!!
Victoria A. Vasquez
3:50 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
These people will be dealt with accordingly.They should also be ashmed of them self for posting horrible thing on facebook.
Randy Bailin
3:51 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
The Petkov's should have their house set on fire. They should then be tied up and thrown into the flames.
Irene Hall
5:26 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
What would that prove? That the people who did what you propose are no better than the Petkov's. Your anger is understandable....anyone with a heart (including myself) would have those same thoughts. Thoughts can be changed. Deeds cannot.
Martha Root
3:52 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
Any adult that bullies a child should suffer harsh consequences. My condolences to Kathleen's family and friends.
Vet Alverson
7:13 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
Bullying is just wrong, weather it is a child b-ing another child,a teenager b-ing their grandparents, or a 5 year old b-ing his 2 year old sibling. And for an adult to do that to a child is ludicrous, makes me ashamed to be a human being. My heart breaks for Rose, I pray that justice will be done.
Kim Roberts Brown
3:53 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
first of all the child wasn't on fb obviously some of u can't read. secondly not everyone abuses Facebook and not everyone bullies on fb…sometimes i only have fb to communicate with ppl that have the same heart defect as myself, other times i use it to communicate with my husband who is deployed over seas …. none of u should be judging ppl that use fb only GOD has the right to judge us …these people will get the punishment they deserve one day…….. too many of you think that just because someone uses fb it means they are bullying someone NOT TRUE KNOW UR FACTS HYPOCRITES!!!
Anna Marie
3:56 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
Judging???? If someone told you to stop doing or eating or drinking something because it was possibly harmful to you, would you come back to them growling as you are now and tell them not to judge you?
Kim Roberts Brown
3:53 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
also for those of u that say there should be a law for bullying THERE IS!!
Tami Hunter
3:55 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
@Ashley: SHE wasn't on facebook! Her GRANDMOTHER was!
Teri Vasterling
3:59 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
Jennifer Petkov & Husband are NO better than CASEY ANTHONY - No sole to torment a young girl dying. Saying "I'm sorry" is BULL.. you are just Sorry for all the negative attention you are receiving. Nuf said.. you are NOT even worth the spit to wet my mouth with for me to talk. I HAD TO POST MY COMMENT HERE...for the EDITOR IS CLOSING ALL THE OTHER ARTICLES ON THIS TERRIBLE TRAGIC STORY. THIS POST IS FOR YOU JENNIFER and your PARTNER IN BULLY CRIMES. WE HAVE OUR EYE ON YOU. LIVE IN PEACE....NOT !!
kenhp1
4:00 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
My heart goes out to this little, lovable, adorable girl that was treated so cruelly while on this earth. I hope her Family is as OK as possible. I know God has to be taking care of her. How any adult could bully a child is beyond me.
Only wish the adults that bullied this young beautiful child could be put away for a long time in prison where they belong. For these monsters to treat this little angel the way they did is not free speech, it is hate speech. I do not believe they have any remorse, they have not the heart for remorse, only hate.
Anna Marie
4:01 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
Kathy Doll (or maybe I should call you Chatty Kathy), as I was trying to explain for those in the cheap seats such as yourself, those sites make it EASIER. EASIER to see how intelligent you are, Kathy or are not, among other things.
st
6:22 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
Shut up with your government rants already. Obviously no one cares if being on a social network will supposedly make it easier for them to see what we're doing. Checking out a library book makes it easy for them, too! Everything we do has the possibility of making it easier. So, unless you want to lock yourself in your house for the rest of your life, wear tin foil on your head, and cut yourself off from all forms of communication and electricity they'll have the ability to find out what you do. Obviously, you must be doing something wrong with your life if you're so worried about it.
Kathy Doll
8:20 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
Well Miss ANNA MARIA should i call you names i can think of a few,I am in no way in the cheap seats since you have that covered ,And thank you for calling me Chatty Kathy since that was a famous Doll in the 60,Your comment just showed your Ignorance for the human race and the government ,The only thing i see cheap is you , your intelligent level is so low ,You couldnt come up with anything better than Chatty kathy,I am glad i dont know you cause i would not be able to talk to you ,I would feel my IQ going down with every word that comes out of your mouth Try and dummy up it might help ya .
Joann Bordo Molzer
4:03 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
What kind of people do you live next door to? Heartless, that they would do that to a young girl that has an illness. They will get theirs in the end........God Bless your family and JUSTICE WILL PREVAIL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Holly Phillips
4:06 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
There is nothing wrong with her having a facebook. That is not even the point here people. A little girl has lost her fight with the same disease that took her mother. My heart goes out to her family who not only had to bury a daughter but now a granddaughter. All the while putting up with two heartless pieces of low life sub human scum. ANYONE who can maliciously attack a dying child, taunting her, laughing at her should be shot on sight! What in hell is wrong with these people?? They must have a block of ice for a heart and piss and vinegar running through their veins. How low can someone go? They sunk to the depths of hell in my opinion. There is NOTHING lower than taunting a dying child. They will answer in the end for what they have done. They better stock up on suntan lotion and burn cream because where those two are going when they die is going to be HOT! I hope that a judge will do the right thing and put these two behind bars where some prisoners can have a go at them and get this family some justice!
Carla
9:07 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
Holly, I agree with your every word, and I couldn't have said it better....If the judge has any empathy and balls, thats where the two will go..My thoughts and prayers are with you Rose and your family..
Gina
4:07 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
Such sick people in the world such as the neighbors. How could they do such a despicable thing to an innocent child??! The grandmother might think about moving away from them.
D Davis
4:07 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
Sick neighbors. How cruel, evil and heartless. My heart goes out to the family, especially the Grandmother. This little girl, is safely in God's hands now.
Morgan Gallagher
4:10 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
God takes people out of this world to bring more together. its not the first time i've heard of it happening. this one thing may bring thousands together and touch more hearts than anyone can imagine. but at the age of 9 is too young.
emma
4:11 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
I can't believe this comment thread is focusing on the evils of facebook. A GROWN WOMAN and her ADULT HUSBAND mercilessly hounded and bullied a family that suffered from a handicap. I am in tears just typing the previous sentence. What kind of world do we live in? Who would do such a thing? The poor poor Edward family. Handicapped people should be treated as the most precious of all; they are so innocent and childlike-something we should all strive to be. I am sick to my stomach reading this story. This is news? If I were Kathleen's grandmother, I don't know what I would do. Sounds like the Devil had a strong hand on the bullying neighbors, human beings rarely act so despicably without some kind of evil influencing them. May God bless Kathleen's soul.
Al
4:12 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
May this beatifull child rest in peace and to people who tormented this child NEVER know peace.
Anna Marie
4:19 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
But Al, as upsetting as all this is, violence and hatred is not the way. It is not God's way to sway people and make them change. The little one is resting in the loving, tender hands of the Almighty - God willing, her mom is too. Believe it or not, these people who do evil need prayer. I understand anger, the pure anger that comes from seeing the weakest bullied and tortured. And I'm not saying it's easy to do- IT'S REALLY HARD especially in the face of all this. But, more powerful than hatred is prayer. Pray for the evil ones. After all, who has the power to stop them, but God? And He may choose to stop them by just taking them out altogether and ending their lives. But, again, He will handle them. He has it all in control - have no doubt.
denise
4:13 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
Holly i love your post! You so perfectly called them HEARTLESS PIECES OF LOW LIFE SUB HUMAN SCUM!
Shelly
4:24 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
I agree Denise. I too loved Holly's post.
Gary York
4:17 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
Trenton where? Trenton, Georgia?
Nate Stemen
4:19 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
The area in question is Trenton, Michigan.
Donna
4:20 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
First I think that it is no ones business who has a facebook......that decision is up to her guardian, not society. Secondly, just because she has a facebook does not mean she is entitled to be tormented, bullied and harrassed and what was done to her was horrible. How can an ADULT do this to anyone never mine an innocent child. She had lost her mom and was about to lose her own life. People need to think about what if it was them that was a target.......would they like it? Probably not. What goes around comes around and hits 20X harder she will get hers.....
Holly Phillips
4:20 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
Denise, what I said was putting it as about as nice as I could post in a comment. I probably can't say what I really think! Its all just so sad that this little girls last years on earth were spent next to people who sunk to the lowest one can sink and made her life a hell on earth.
SABLE
5:29 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
all of you ---- all, everyone here, don't be so gullible. k?
Ray
4:26 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
Forget the why was she on Facebook stuff. The point of the story is "bullying", in this case toward a young girl dying of a disease that took her mother also. She could be at school and be bullied over it, God knows there are plenty of kids doing that in the schools and what are we going to say why was she in school in the first place? Apparently the woman doing the bullying hasn't matured and should be dealt with.
Lucy
4:33 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
All I can say is this. No matter how good or bad our justice system is, when all is said and done and it's your time to go what is going to matter most is how you lived your life and how you treated others. These two will get what is coming to them, what ever that is, in the next life. Just seeing that Kathleen was the innocent sweetheart in all of this shows she didn't die in vain and that those attacks against her and her mom, no matter how cruel, didn't do anything to truly harm them. They were and always will be the better people in this situation. Everyone's actions speak volumes as to what kind of people they are. It's just too bad that grown adults treat others, and children, like this.
Tell Later
4:35 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
God has taken another Angle. May God carry kathleen and her family in this time of sorrow. You will be missed by many and loved by all. May your Mom be their waiting for you with open arms in that beautiful place in the sky. REST IN PEACE LITTLE ANGLE
mray
4:39 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
After reading some of the other articles about this it seems that the rotton neighbors started all these problems over hurt feelings about a birthday party their kids weren't invited to. ARE YOU FRICKIN' KIDDING ME???? What a bunch of juvenile, moronic, petty, so and sos! Karma's a beyotch and they'll get theirs.
John Hetzler
4:40 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
Please keep the comments civil, and please look over the Patch Terms of Use: http://trenton.patch.com/terms
Connie
4:42 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
I just read the Welcoming page regarding beautiful Kathleen Edwards and her fight with Huntington’s decease. My heart goes out to her family. What a loss it is to our entire world to lose such a beautiful little girl.
I can’t understand why some adults are so brash and cruel; are they so insecure about themselves that they have to make the lives of good decent people miserable?
I hope the Judge see’s this BULLY Jennifer Petkove and her husband for what they are and throws the book at them. These two adult people are cowards to pick on a sweet innocent child. Shame on them and I hope the judge will give them a good stiff prison sentence. Maybe in prison, justice will be served.
duncan chin
4:44 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
The Petrovs may or may not discover how much they are despised for bullying a child......it would not matter to them to be reminded. People like the Petrovs have a primitive mentality..... generally do not feel compassion..... poke at someones wound or injury as a means to gain pleasure...... that is just the way they are.....Primitive........
Tell Later
4:48 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
I hope those nasty , mean people get theirs. God will judge all one day and they will get theirs. God dont like ugly!! I hope the law gets them because they deserve EVERYTHING they get. And if you are reading this Petkovs you should be ashamed of yourselves your mean and hateful ! How can you do that to a child whos lost her mother and her own life to such a horiable illness. Something is wrong with people like you and you should be delt with and you will be one day !!!
Janie.Klir
4:50 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
Oh what a sweet beautiful Little angel she is. I am so deeply sorry for your losses. I honestly dont know how you have stayed so strong through it all and May The Good Lord Bless You and give you Comfort during this awful time.
Rest in Peace Honey
Rhiannon Lenora Baroldy
4:59 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
I just want to thank you for being so kind to them and trying to show your sympathy. Thank you. You took the words right from my heart.
Paula Larson
4:50 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
Ashley, my 10yr. old granddaughter has a facebook page! Not the point. You could have said something nice!
Missie Stevens
4:55 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
I THINK ALOT OF YOU PEOPLE ARE MISSING WHAT HAS HAPPENED HERE ... WE HAVE LOST A VERY SPECIAL LITTLE GIRL ... A LITTLE GIRL WHO ALWAYS HAD A SMILE ON HER FACE NO MATTER HOW BAD SHE WASFEELIN OR HOW SICK THIS BABY WAS ...KATHLEEN HAS TOUCHED ALOT OF HEARTS IN THIS WORLD .... NOONE HAS NE RIGHT TO BLAME HER PARENTS FOR NETHING LAURAL HER MOTHER HAD THE SAME DISEASE THAT KATHLEEN HAD SO MAYBE BEFORE YOU START PUTTIN DOWN THE PARENTS OR GRANDPARENTS YOU MAY WANT TO THINK ABOUT HOW YOU WOULD FEEL IF YOU BURIED YOU CHILD 2 YEARS AGO WITH THIS DISEASE AND SHE DIED IN YOUR ARMS AND THEN YOU YOUR GRANDBABY DIED OF THE SAME DISEASE AND SHE ALSO DIED IN UR ARMS AS WELL ... SO PUT URSELF IN THE GRANDMOTHER SHOES ...YOU COULDNT WALK A HALF A MILE IN HER SHOES .... THAT IS ONE HELL OF A WOMAN AND I THANK HER AND HER SISTER FOR GIVING ME THE OPP TO GET TO KNOW KATHLEEN .... REST IN PEACE KATHEEN WE LOVE YOU SO MUCH ......
SABLE
4:56 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
So, the Grandmother blames neighbors harassment for Kathleen's hasty demise? Had her look at facebook images of the Grim Reaper & related death sybols related.
That child ought to had been in Foster Care, not tormented by the Grandmothers monitoring of facebook.
Bad enough the child lost of Mum, now had to rely on a sociopathy to care for her.
I agree with the comment that says seven is to young to be using facebook, or the Internet for that matter.
Irene Hall
5:31 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
Sable, I would suggest you possibly google "Jennifer Petkov" and garner informatioin and facts before you start labelling people. Sociopath? My dear, you are so misniformed, it scares me.
Kathy Doll
8:07 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
Her grandmother did no such thing the idiots lived acroos the street from her grandmother and would say things on facebook as well to her face,Her grandmother tried to sheild her hence why she went to live with her dad,You are as bad as the idiots that lived across the street form her grandmother ,How dare you make such a statement when you dont have a clue about what was going on ,
Marie Clay
4:57 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
Thought I had heard from enough ignorant people, but I guess there are still more out there! This little girl had Huntington's Disease, a neuroligical brain disorder. The brain cells die and you can not function. SHE DID NOT HAVE A FACEBOOK PAGE!! Her ignorant neighbor did and said terrible things about Kathleen and her family.Take a moment to google Huntington's Disease or hdsa.org and get educated before you open your pie hole!You are as heartless as their neighbors. My family is also afflicted with HD. I know what I'm talking about! HD is like having Parkinsons, alzheimers, ALS, MS,all at the same time.No cure. How many will post an apology? May God comfort Kathleen's family. Kathleen is in her Momma's arms again
paticia izzo
5:04 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
Rebecca Rose.. May God Bless you and give you the peace beyond all understanding and remove all wounds caused by ignorance and replace them with the healing grace of forgiveness.. soar to where the rare air is.. where God is. Blessings to you Rose... and your loved ones
terri rhyne
5:10 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
some people are just cruel they don't have a life but back to more importance of thing's bless the little girle she is in good hand's now
christina tassell
5:16 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
god bless her family...
christina tassell
5:18 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
why should the granddaughter be taken from grandma??? those people are worthless picking on someone sick and dying.... they'll fall into the snares of their own traps.... God bless grandma and her family... My respects to her...
christina tassell
5:19 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
an adult who has to harrass a child is sorry and worthless...
mary collins finn
5:26 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
I feel for this family and the crazy neighbors sound like very nasty individuals.
BUT - Hungtinton's Chorea is of autosomal dominant inheritance meaning that 50% of offspring have it if a parent has it. I can't imagine why a family with this disorder would risk inflicting this horrible suffering on a child. Where were the genetic counselors?
st
6:27 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
Maybe because 50% is still a good chance of not passing it on! Just because her mother had the gene, it didn't make her less entitled to have the same joys in life as everyone else, especially since they were great parents who did everything they could for her. How about leaving the parental criticism to those who are not good parents, or better yet, not deciding who should or should not have kids since that's not up to you.
Lindsey Elms
5:27 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
1. there is nothing wronge with fb. 2. just b/c the neighbor got mad at the gandma dosent give them the right to do what they did.3.wath they did was so.................................................................. wrong 4.its not nice bullying other people b/c every body is different in there own way so if they have somthin to say they just need to keep their mouth shut they r no diff. then anybody else is soooo.5.the neighbor was a jerk for doing tht.6.parents should do better at there job i mean whats the point in haveing kids if all yur going to do is show them but nothing but disrespect. you parenets do nothing but be to each other all the time most of you do and the ones who acturelly trys to show a good example to there kids thank you it will mean a lot to them when they get older and they wil do the same with thier kids.
SABLE
5:33 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
***********************IT'S A FEEDING FRENZY****************
LQQk @ ALL the 'feeders' go, comment after comment, it's all the same, lol, lol.
ellvee
11:55 pm on Thursday, February 2, 2012
Well you're on here posting, aren't you?
Maria Poggi
5:39 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
I heard bells ring today, cause a child has gotten her wings. My prayers are with the grandmother and family.
Lyndsey
5:43 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
I don't understand you people, you say bullying is bad but yet I just saw two people on here gang up on someone because he used all caps and misspelled a few words. They were told and I quote "go take your meds and relax." I'm only 22 and I act more like an adult than the adults who make these comments.
Grow up people. An innocent child died...the only comments that should be on this page should be condolences to the grandmother in which she has mine. I cannot imagine losing my daughter and I can't imagine how she feels losing a daughter and a granddaughter.
Irene Hall
5:56 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
Amen, Lyndsey...Amen. Having lost a child myself, I agree 100%.
Kellie Marie
5:56 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
may she rest in peace
Steven Tidwell
6:02 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
Is there any marture people in the world? I wonder. Who could actually post a mean spirited comment about a dying child?
Jody Comeau
6:02 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
This LIttle Girl In Heaven With Her Mom And Angels. Rest In Peace Little Angel...... JC.
Doug Guillory
6:15 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
after reading the post about the coffin in the pickup truck I remember the story now from a couple years ago. there is no rhyme or reason for these people to have done this no matter what. kids fall in and out of friendships on a daily basis and make up just as fast. no invitation to a bday party may have been oversight or the kids could have had a falling out but it shouldn't have mattered to the parents. the kids should be able to fend for themselves in their own way--not be helped by parents who make a downes syndrome child look absolutely brilliant!! as far as the school, I was bullied from day one at 5yo by a 5th grader and the school finally took matters up and made him stay at one part of the school yard so I could go to another with a teacher watching for the first year I was in school. it took a couple of months of complaining about the problem before it ever got to that point, they kept saying "kids will be kids!" so I guess things haven't changed in 50 years! to torment a family and this beautiful baby is so disgusting that it is rediculous and the people who did this are making a really good example to their kids aren't they???? my thoughts and prayers to this family who lost so much in such a short time.
Jeanne-marie Tran
7:25 am on Sunday, February 3, 2013
You are so right! As a teacher of (severely) emotionally disturbed and mentally ill I had to be with them all day because of the bullying, and when they had PE, I was on the field in the face of every kid who thought they could get away with anything when the Coach wasn't looking, AHHHHH, but I WAS there and I was in their little faces and when they would try to trip or body slam one of my or any other Special Ed teacher's kids I didn't just watch to see what happened, but when the coach gave the regular kids "a break" but blamed the special ed kids for a clash of behaviors, even when the regular ed kid was twice the body size in height and weight, and you know that these smaller SpEd kids weren't looking to die and wouldn't pick a fight with someone twice their size, so you know who was bullying who...so who does the Principal defend, even if I was there and saw it all, the Coach, and what comes of body slamming my same age but less physically developed kids, after listening to the fabrications of the Coach...actually sometimes my innocent kids are sent to the office for solitary confinement there, victims once by the perpetrator, victims twice when the coach tells a story that vindicates the regular kid and blames the SpEd kid. We have an anti-abnormal society, Van Gogh was mentally ill but was treated by his family and his neighbors critically concerned and that was extremely important. Acceptance crucial, help critical, love the greatest healer, shall we try, its free...
JoAnna
6:16 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
This child was ridiculed and taunted, dies at an age where her life was just too short. May her tormenters feel terrible remorse. My sympathy to her family, especially Grandmother. So heartbreaking.
Private
6:26 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
Her tormenters are too criminal to even know the meaning of remorse, and incapable of feeling remorse. I wish more to them than feeling remorse. May they receive worse than what they have caused! Much worse!
Private
6:22 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
My deepest sympathy to this beautiful young girl's family. And for the one doing the bullying needs to be locked up. There needs to be stricter laws for bullies, and make them strict! It's beyond criminal.
Private
6:24 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
Bullies are the most disgusting of beasts! They are the trashy lowlifes, and scum of the earth.
Carolee
6:27 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
What is wrong with people? Who cares if a person uses all Caps? Who has nothing better to do then comment about spelling? At least we all have the right to say what we want too. Nowhere in my computer manual does it say I cannot use all Caps. Stick to the issue here.
The poor sweet grandmother has to bury her granddaughter, let the little child rest in peace.
The people who live by the grandmother are really sick for the mean things they did. I hope the rest of the neighbors give them hell, maybe the whole town.
I live by this thought: "IN THE END ONLY KINDNESS MATTERS"
gina
6:29 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
it isnt about facebook it was about 'a grown adult bullying a child not just on facebook but to her face" if it wasnt for facebook alot of us would not have seen this little girls huge smile and her angelic face!!I know I personally loved logging on and seeing pictures and videos of this beautiful little girl,she had a smile that would brighten anyones day!! May you rest in peace Kathleen.You are now with your momma and the loved ones you left behind will see you again!!
ROSE MARIE LUJAN
6:31 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
ASHLEY... BEFORE YOU MAKE JUDGEMENT CALLS ABOUT A 9 YEAR OLD LITTLE GIRL BEING ON FACEBOOK IS IT REALLY NECESSARY TO MAKE COMMENTS LIKE THIS RIGHT NOW!?! DON'T YOU THINK THIS FAMILY IS HURTING ENOUGH!?!? LET THE LITTLE ANGEL REST IN PEACE.... AND TO JENNIFER AND SCOTT... KARMA SUCKS... PUNISHMENT IN LIFE I'M SURE WILL COME YOUR WAY.
Kathe Brown
6:37 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
neighbors had better get out of dodge. what community could tolerate such neighbors?
jerri
6:43 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
It don't matter how old she was.. I know she was supervised. And she was a sick little girl!! Come on people..Really?!! Going to gripe about a dying little girl being on Facebook?!!!
Thomas Mills
6:45 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
The Petkov's are the lowest of the lowest. They need some heavy duty spiritual and psychological counseling. Ms Petkov's statement of regret for her original Facebook post is shallow. She thinks all she has to do is say I'm sorry and everything is OK. Well it seems that she is sorry for her actions towards Kathleen, but then she tried to run over another neighbor that same year!
Suzy
6:48 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
I don't think it really matters who had a facebook page, and who didn't.. This is about a little girl with a terminal illness who died at such a young age... She moved into the arms of her mother in heaven, away from the haters, who those people are.
w
6:49 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
you americans are so stupid... innocent angel died and you, instead of condolences, you all are arguing with each other about something which is AUDACIOUS and LUDICROUS at this moment...
Sincere condolence from the bottom of my heart for the family of innocent angel
Kathy Doll
5:09 am on Friday, January 13, 2012
I agree with you on the fighting ,But to say you americans are stupid .You just put your self in the bullying to ,How do you know who is and not a american posting on here ?If your living in the U.S then that would make you american, too.
3p!cBunn3hG!rl
6:52 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
My heart goes out this little girl and her family.The people who bullied her will get theirs,but there is only one problem I have.Why is the half of this forum on why she shouldn't have a facebook or argueing that she didn't.Shouldn't we be thinking about the important thing like giving our condolences?Why are we typing utterly useless crap and trying to bash on other's comments?I'm only twelve and realize that.Shouldn't you?
Mike
7:00 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
Why would anyone want to emoitionally harm this beautiful little child. It's makes me sick to my stomach the way some adults can act. Rest peacefully little angel. I will look for you in heaven.
GioloComanche
7:06 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
Looking into that angels baby blue eye's and disarming smile , I can see why you folks are heart broken as am I.But a little girl like this would have sought comfort or reasoning from the closest adult to her if she had that typr of close bond where she comfortable going to them. Obviously she had none else she would be alive quite simply. Where i come we call it monitoring your kids computer used as i do all three of my daughters without them ever knowing i have that type of access unless i dicover they are either in danger or in trouble which thankfully hasn't happend. My son was being bullyed by some fool at school just like Katie here. I secretly payed three older kids from the hood to go up there and stop it, and they did after a good ole Arkansas A$$ whoopen. Needles to say my son has since graduated with honors never to be bullyed again. You must be extreme when your kids are in danger as little Katie was, you must monitor your kids every move if possible. I work two jobs and still keep a tight leash on my kids activities online or else where without being a D$$K which they love and respect me for, and obey me. We call it parenting down here, learn it! Having a couple bulles A$$eS whooped may have saved my sons life. Though that was extreme, i have no remorse what so ever, please beileve me! Little girls go to there das and moms when they are scared or bothered if that bond exists like it does with my girls and son, where was the dad and grandma when she came to them?
Kathy Doll
7:58 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
They stood by her side thats where her grandma and dad was she died from You did not read the story she did not kill her self ,She died from Huntington's disease, Just like her mother did in 2009,
Karen
7:07 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
I am the BS RN from Texas who wrote early on and my own daughter Jennifer Karen died on July 25, 2011 a MVA in Virginia; I can't say anything except we loved this little girl thousands of us maybe millions and her grandmother who stood the test of time, and now it is God's time. Please those of you who know the truth do not let this criminal and mentally vindictive person continue; you have seen her break restraining orders for her residence you have got to do this for another little girl anywhere could suffer the same hate if this person is not properly incarcerated, indicted, and forced into a program of behavior modification that she adheres to. My deepest love to this very special family who touched our hearts throughout the country people in Michigan stand up and do what God wants HIS WILL is the good never the bad. Peace my friends the sorrow of your loss (my loss) is ever strong but God cradles her with complete peace, she is with her mother, she is with my daughter they are God's children yes indeed they are...Your NURSE in Texas it's always the good fight..
Karen (formerly Bryan) George BS,RNC,UM,QC,Consultant
Texas
Stacie Gregg
7:09 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
I remember this story. this just breaks my heart. what a sweet little angel. I hope those neighbors that pickd on her and her family suffer as much as this family is right now. R.I.P. Kathleen.
Jen28
7:14 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
Rest in Peace Sweet Angel Kathleen. <3
Don't let anyone stand in your way even there in Heaven. You are chosen to be on God's team of Angels.
April Wish
7:23 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
Thoughts & Prayers to you, and to your Family.......
jazz
7:25 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
This type of depraved abuse and bullying existed before and with out facebook. It would be nice to hear that some how they were beated to near death but left disfunctional- unable to type on facebook and unable to speak another coherient work till they die. I hope the go to prison were this could happen.
GioloComanche
7:27 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
As i said in my first comment, little girls that have a strong realationship with there parents will come to them in times of trouble as each of my three daughters had done with problems you would they would only seek out another female to confide in about, even my 12 year old. I can't imagine why that angel couldn't make her family aware of this so they could act when we know kids are dieing from this these days and that it is serious enough to take extreme measure as i did when my son ran into this problem, and i am a black, yes thats right! And a damn good father to boot despite public opinion on us black men as fathers just to get that out of the way real quick. A 9 year old on face book without strict monitoring is at least dangerous if not stupid as we all now see, but i have known for some time now. I know this is not about that any more, but you have to wonder if this child could have been saved if the grown folks in her life where as close to her as they say. I don't know a responcible parent that lets a 9 year baby run wild on the internet with child molesters and bullies alike just waiting to run into a victim. I grieve for that child just everyone, but if they had done there job she would still be alive today, and i don't buy any of this bleeding heart crap the guardians throwing out here.Where was the parental guidance? That angel should be alive! As far as I'm concerned they droped the ball major league with major league concequinces, so there, i said it.
Kathy Doll
7:53 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
You did not read the story she did not kill her self ,She died from Huntington's disease, Just like her mother did in 2009,She had adults that was posting stuff on FB about her and friends of her grandmother seen it and told her Grandmother,the idiots also lived across the street from the girl and her grandmother and would say stuff to her face,You must read a story before making such a stupid comment on it SHE PAST AWAY from Huntington's disease, .You can read that right,NO parent let her run wild on the internet ,please read a story
ellvee
12:08 am on Friday, February 3, 2012
Number 1, you should read the article before you post a comment and don't know what you're talking about. Number 2, why did you have to say that you were black and a damn good father despite public opinion. Whose public opinion were you referring to, us "whites"? You are the only person on here who had to refer to their ethnicity to make a post. Put the race card back in your pocket because nobody cares about that but you. No one else mentioned their race, color or creed but you. Why?
Sandy
7:29 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
May God give wings to sweet Kathleen.. The only place where streets are gold and I DO believe God gives you anything you want.. May God comfort the family... and wrap His arms around you..
Janice Carpino
7:30 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
I guess what I don't understand is why people bully. Do they get something out of it, does it make them a bigger person. Maybe since adults do it, maybe they are teaching their children to do it. But for the life of me, I just can't rap my head around it. Now that the little girls is dead, now you can go on, and say, I DID A GOOD JOB.
SICK may your life be filled with all the shit that life can give you.
Jane
7:43 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
I don't know how Facebook got to be the culprit. The fact of the matter is, a young girl who barely started started her life, was taunted by adults.
"Kathleen was the center of a feud with neighbors, Jennifer and Scott Petkov on Detroit Street, that eventually led to Jennifer Petkov admittingly doctoring photos to depict Edward and her late mother in a skull and cross bones and embraced by the grim reaper" How SICK is that?!!!!!
Vicki Joiner
7:59 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
i wish i could have helped the little girl' however id probably be in jail right now . bullying is causing so many deaths that it has to be stopped two kids at our high school killed themselves because of it . they were 16 and 17 . as for ashley, she dosent grasp the fact a very sick motherless cild was facing death and was tormented by some very nasty sick adults. why they were not in jail, i have no clue , her last years were rough enough, but that wasnt good enough for the non humans across the street may god in his wisdom, deal with them and may she rest in peace
zacb
8:08 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
Wow.....People Read the Story before Posting Comments....You People Asking "What was she doing on FB" Really sound like idiots....The story is sad as it is and my heart goes out to the family....and hpopefully those neighbors will get what they deserve....But you people posting bad comments just make it worse....if you can't read the story then don't post
Jeff
8:18 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
As a sensible parent I refuse to believe the grandparent (much older and wiser) would have shared this knowledge to this child to further burden her of the ugliness. Facebook or any other social networking sites were/are designed to seek, invite, and share common interests. No difference in the “real world”, regardless of environment. Choose your “friends” to share with wisely. You’ll find in most cases that friends are few and family many. Much can be best left unsaid of bullies. It’s all about approaching their antics and tactics legally and sensibly without stooping, if at all possible to their level.
Allie O'Neill
8:25 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
This is so sad... I cannot believe her neighbors did this to her. I hope her neighbors get charged alot of money or at least do community service. Her family must be so heartbroken about her death. R.I.P Kathleen. Also to the people who are making mean comments please stop her family probably reads them, which is probably going to make them feel worse.
Rayne
8:48 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
If you are a bully, I dare you to contact me. I'm sick of these stories.
Rayne
8:51 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
If you are a bully, I dare you to contact me. Rot in hell, I'm sick of these stories
Sacha
8:57 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
These neighbors are going to get exactly what they deserve. God doesn't like ugly. May the little angel rest in peace.
minn
9:16 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
A little girl who eyes where like the stars. She is an Angel of god now, she can see the love she had from so many of us here on earth. We will remember you Kathleen,your pretty smile and your kind little heart that was so big. God bless your family, your grandmother.
MURRY
9:21 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
Why are so many people commenting about a 9 year old being on facebook? There is nothing wrong with kids using it as long as an adult sets it up for them. All four of my granddaughters use it and I think it is a great way to keep intouch and keep updated on things, especially if you don't live close to them. Bullying can happen anywhere and is very prevalent in schools. If the laws don't change about it, then it will continue. It needs to be made a misdemenor at the very least, a felony if the person is driven to suicide, which recently happened in the city close to where I live. The parents are to blame, just as much as the kids, and should be held accountable for their kids actions. My oldest granddaughter had another girl in her class start bullying her and believe me it was nipped in the bud as soon as we found out about it. I personally contacted the parents of that girl and let them know it would not be tolerated and they would be dealing with me if it didn't stop. I don't care if it gets me in trouble as long as my grand child will be protected. We then went to the school and talked with the principle and counselor and let them know right off something needed to be done before it got too out of hand. The girl was confronted in the office and it was laid out to her what would happen to her if it didn't stop. Lucky for all of us she never had any more problems with her. Don't sit back and wait for something bad to happen, be a grownup and handle the situation.
Gini Flores
5:57 am on Friday, January 13, 2012
Murry, I want to highlight your whole paragraph, well written. This is the smartest thing I've read. You've made a very clear point without the ugliness. We have to take this information, lesson, whatever you want to call it and learn from it. We are our children's best advocate. I have been to the schools office as well to stop bulling and now that I'm a grandparent myself I will be my grandsons, and any future grandchild's advocate. I have to agree with you that we do need stiffer punishments for bulling offenders. Enough is enough.
Michael McMann
9:39 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
I remember this as it was going on. Those disgusting, heartless pieces of dog crap named Jennifer and Scott Petkov tormented this little girl by driving a home made casket on the back of their truck up and down the street, all because thier kid, who is probably as disgusting as they are, was not invited to a party. Every neighbor in that area should shun the pond scum family. I can only hope that something horrible happens to that woman and i hope she suffers the rest of her life. She's a pig.
Nancy Ciezak
9:44 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
revenge is Gods and trust me, he will see they get it.. how heartbreaking for that little girl....
Abigaill Tomsen
9:40 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
Facebook requires users to be 13 ...., so she obvioulsy lied about her age.
Where where the parents when she created her facebook account?
Parents need to closely monitor children's activity on the internet!
ellvee
10:40 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
Why don't you read and educate yourself before you open mouth and insert foot?
Kathy Doll
5:14 am on Friday, January 13, 2012
You are another one who did not read the story ,Please go back up to the story and read it ,THE NIEGHBORS HAD A FACEBOOK PAGE NOT HER>They bullied her And i agree with
Ellvee .
Roger Funk
9:47 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
This is sad. This isn't about her age. She had disease people and who knows maybe she wasn't expected to live to her 13 birthday and in this case she didn't. Adults should not torment a child. And she was stranger makes it even worse. I don't wish anything on anyone but they where wrong and she didn't deserve this and is better place now.
Roger Funk
9:53 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
Here some info Abigaill The average lifespan after onset of HD is 10-20 years. The younger the age of onset, the more rapid the progression of the disease.
Toni Patrick
9:57 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
Why are ADULTS picking on a child???? Wtf?
Roger Funk
9:58 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
But yes you say wait to 13 most of the kids with HD dont even live that long. So yeah you can't always go by the same set of rules. Yes a healthy child can wait to 13 but not a child with HD. I feel right about this and I hope this opens your eyes!
Barb Cagle
10:12 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
Wow all of you are a bunch of idiots, take your arguing somewhere else.This page is about that beautiful childs death not about if she had a facebook or not. Either leave a comment saying RIP or something else nice and not let this be a debate.
Barb Cagle
10:27 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
Such a beautiful little girl Kathleen may you rest in peace .
Carla
10:33 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
All I can say is that the bullies when get theirs in the end..
Donna
10:38 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
I will pray for you Rose and ask the Lord to help you heal from the burden of this great loss that was certainly made so much more unbearable because of the mean spirited behavior of such a thoughtless couple. If the judge was wise he/she would sentence this couple to spend time in a hospice situation with children and maybe they would have some understanding of what it means to lose what you love the very most. I will never forget when I was working as a pediatric nurse and was with a couple as the doctor told them there only child (4yr. old boy) had leukemia and would not live. I was pregnant myself and it was Thanksgiving. It was all I could do to hold back the tears, but it taught me a great lesson about what's really important in life! I will pray for this couple too because somewhere along the way they lost their humaness, their compassion, kindness, decency and heart. I hope they will look to God for the answers and remember "The Golden Rule".
May God give you his peace Rose, Donna
Tim
11:00 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
like people have been saying ,think b 4 u comment ,like JESUS said come 2 me child 4 i will comfort u , there will b no more pain or sorrow , i will hold u n my arms and keep u safe , where no one Will harm u no more , with my love u will have peace and ever lasting life with me , sayth the LORD, AMEN AND AMEN
Pam J
11:27 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
All you have to do is delete your Facebook account. Then you won't see what is going on. And tell everybody you know that you don't want to know what is going on. The people you care about will understand and not take what they read seriously. People who post mean and hateful things are not worth anybody's time. Just ignore them and maybe they will get the message.
Geddes Fielder
11:49 pm on Thursday, January 12, 2012
It doesn't really matter whether she had facebook or not. This has turned into a discussion of if FB is good or evil. Who cares, really, What matters to me is the loss of a little life to a horrible disease. There is a lot of passion on these pages but it would be best spent honouring a little child and finding ways to eradicate this awful illness.
Pam J
9:47 am on Friday, January 13, 2012
Well, unfortunately, I doubt that the story about this little girl with that horrible disease would have made the news if not for the Facebook issue. This story should have been just about Kathleen passing away. Instead they printed the information about the Facebook problems, and people are going to jump on that. Which, I think, is a good thing because it shows the ugly side of Facebook. If enough people become involved, maybe the ugly part can be minimized in the future. But it is incredibly sad that a nine-year-old died, not that long after her mother died. But don't blame the people who are talking about Facebook, because the article made it a main topic.
Sam Mort
12:20 am on Friday, January 13, 2012
There are a lot of good people in this world and then there are the as_holes. Those neighbors belong to the latter group. All I can say is God bless that adorable little girl.
Karen
12:32 am on Friday, January 13, 2012
I just read this article and I'm outraged, I was born with heart defects which went undetected until I was an adult. I was a sickly child who could not take gym & missed school a lot. The other kids bullied me. I was very lucky to have grown up & have 2 corrective surgeries. I feel for Kathleen. I don't know how a grown woman and her husband could have bullied a dying little girl. This is disgusting. That's really mature, to pick on a child and to make fun of her deceased mother. The poor grandmother must be devastated, she lost her daughter and her grand-daughter, don't rub it in. I agree, the point of this article is NOT about Facebook. It's about bullying and how it has to stop. It's bad enough when kids bully each other, but for adults to bully a seriously ill child who is going to die is just plain immoral. I hope in this case our criminal justice system takes swift action on the Petkovs, who are miserable excuses for human beings. Katheleen is with her mom and God now and they will provide comfort for eternity. I pray for their souls and for Rebecca Rose; surely she is overcome with grief. I shed tears for her and for darling Kathleen (and her mom). NO ONE SHOULD BE BULLIED. She was a beautiful, innocent little girl. Those neighbors are sick and perverted. I wish they could be locked up for life. When they have to face God, they will beg for mercy and then won't get it. I spit on them.
Lynn Weston
12:45 am on Friday, January 13, 2012
Sounds like a form of emotional child abuse, the Petkov's are very sick people.
Marv
12:49 am on Friday, January 13, 2012
Huntingtons is a genetic disease passed through one parent. If they have children each child has a 50% chance of getting the disease. It has both physical and psychological effects. Most obviously there can be facial twitching and distortions along with unusual walking patterns such that the person may appear drunk until they understand. It is a rare disease and the only well known person I am aware of was Woody Guthrie. Arlo is at risk, but is now at an age that he has likely been in the favored 50%. In my family situation my wife got it from her mother who in turn got it from her mother. We did not understand the disease until she got symptons and began her research. She was an award winning journalist. Before she did she volunteered for many trials of medications. There still is no cure although some medications ease symptoms. Normally there is little pain, thankfully. Since the 1990s there is a marker such that couples can get genetic counseling to decide about child bearing. Along with the slow and incideous progression is the heart break. One of my daughters now has the disease. She bore that knowledge silently by herself for 10 years. We need a cure and they are working on it every day.
So please be careful who you make fun of. In many cases it is a very sad situation and deserves sympathy no bullying.
Ashley
1:11 am on Friday, January 13, 2012
This is so sad. She was only 9. Prayers go out to her family. Sorry for your loss.
mary
1:27 am on Friday, January 13, 2012
This was such a dreadful story when it broke. This poor girl lost her mother, and a mother lost her daughter, then had to put up with the most horrible crap by that awful neighbor. I know I should pray for her, and I know this is very un-Christian of me, but rather than pray for this neighbor, there is a part of me hoping that there is a special part of hell for her. This little girl had so much to deal with in her short, little life. I pray that she is with her mother and the angels now, no longer suffering. My heart goes out to the grandparents, this poor grandmother burying both her daughter and grand-daughter, and STILL having to go to court to battle this foul neighbor. May God bless her, and, although I must admit I'm forcing myself to say this, may God bless the neighbor as well. The best thing for the grandmother would be for the neighbor's heart to be softened, and to stop fighting and harassing the grandmother. Then they both could have peace. So, may God bless all who are involved.
Tera Ciesla
1:31 am on Friday, January 13, 2012
I am so sick of hearing of this behavior. Your 34 and act like a complete child? Really? This has to stop and we as people need to start fighting back. You know stop hiding behind the fact of not getting involved, get involved or it will continue. But a 34 year old, I'm disgusted.
Alice Parrish
2:13 am on Friday, January 13, 2012
I so sorry about your grandaughter Kathleen. This has to be very tramatic for you. The passing of your daughter and then your grandaughter Kathleen. Losing someone close to you is so heart breaking. Until a parenta has to go through it with their child and grandchildren, they can never realize the great loss and pain. I will keep you in prayer. God be with you. ALP
David Smith
3:11 am on Friday, January 13, 2012
adults bullying children? this is why it goes on in schools. some of the children that bully are getting bullied at home by their dumb parents. poor world this is.
David Smith
3:12 am on Friday, January 13, 2012
this is exactly why we need laws against bullying & intimidation. adults bullying children? this is why it goes on in schools. some of the children that bully are getting bullied at home by their dumb parents. poor world this is.
Ms. Mom
3:51 am on Friday, January 13, 2012
DOESN'T ANY ONE READ BEFORE THEY COMMENT?.... I've read several times that the little angel DIDN'T have a Facebook page but you intellectuals keep posting the same stupid question.....and further more this is about a life lost not about a social site....CAN WE PLEASE FOCUS ON THE ÁNGEL AND THE FAMILY WHO HAS TO CARRY THE PAIN of her death AND NOT FACEBOOK
C Wagner
3:51 am on Friday, January 13, 2012
I knew Kathleen personally. Her life was all about love. She always had a smile on her face. If the news had to report on it, they should have left the Petkovs out. And so should we. It just brings about more hate; you can see it starting up again here. This isn't a time to remember the injustices done to her; it's time to celebrate her life. Her story reached people in over 80 countries, uniting the world with love. While it is so incredibly hard to lose such a precious little girl, we can take comfort in knowing that she is no longer suffering. We can honor her by always staying positive, remembering the good times, and smiling. That's what she would've wanted.
♥ Love you, Kathleen. Always. ♥
PS: Though this has been repeatedly mentioned in the comments, Kathleen did NOT have a Facebook. Taunts were made daily by their neighbors across the street. This wasn't just some internet thing. Just FYI. Still, focus should be on the family and the little girl that they just lost. Shame on anyone who makes this about anything else.
ellvee
12:16 am on Friday, February 3, 2012
Well said. I'm very sorry for the loss of that beautiful little girl and her mother. My heart goes out to the family and to all of the people who love them.
Wizard
4:40 am on Friday, January 13, 2012
So many emotional people commenting here, i see so many people dieing all the time every day on the news or whatever, i am curious however what this feud is all about that is being described as "alleged personal protection order violations".
Kathy Doll
5:24 am on Friday, January 13, 2012
@ Wizard The neighbors that lived across the street from Kathleen,Made nasty comments and posted pics,Of her mother who past away in 09 and her ,They said things to her face and parked a casket near across the street from Kathleen,They said they where going to throw a party when she past away ,they did nasty and horrible things ,The family got a protection order against the neighbors ,Put it didnt slow them down on there crap they said ,They violated it and nothing was ever done to them for it .
david
5:25 am on Friday, January 13, 2012
taunting a sick child,what s o bs.what a precious and darling young lady.kathleen i hope you will be an inspiration to all of us,and put an end to bullying.all types of bullying.
bless your lil heart.
bye sweetheart lots of love to you
kat
5:49 am on Friday, January 13, 2012
I hope to GOD she has her day in court. How disgusting that anyone would do such a thing. Children should always be protected, especially a strong child who had to go through so much in her short life. And yes, people die all the time, that doesn't make this story any less important, what a thing to say! Just pray you never go through what this child had to, or any children you love. Prayers and thoughts are with her grandmother.
Feed Up
5:53 am on Friday, January 13, 2012
I am 64 yrs old and when I was in school was bullied. I did not kill myself - I just ignored it all and went on to live a normal life. Bulling is part of life and kids do not kill themselves over it.There is a lot more to the why than bulling. A lot more !
ellvee
9:31 pm on Friday, January 13, 2012
What are you talking about?? Do you even know what this post is about? The little girl did not kill herself, she had a terminal illness. Yes, bullying is a part of life but it is not an acceptable part of life because children DO kill themselves over it. Read the papers much?
Susan
8:17 am on Friday, January 13, 2012
First and foremost, I'm sending my most sincere condolences to Kathleen Edward's family, her friends, and all involved. They will all be in my thoughts and prayers.
To Jennifer and Scott Petkov, including people out there like them or likewise,
I strongly believe, "What comes around goes back around 10 times worse for doing bad thing's and 10 times better for doing good thing's.." Some people believe it's a coincidence something good or bad happens towards someone that did something good or bad. I stand firm what I believe, because I've witnessed too many times what happens to people shortly or later on after they do some kind of acts of goodness towards someone or others or vice versa.
For Jennifer and Scott Petkov, I just about imagine they've been living a nightmare day and night the very moment this got so much attention from all around. They most likely get ridiculed every time when they're out in public somewhere. For their own daughter, it wouldn't surprise me if she gets taunted in school or will in the near future.
cheryl macari
12:28 pm on Friday, January 13, 2012
#1 KATHLEEN NEVER HAD A FACEBOOK
#2 SHE WAS TORMENTED IN PERSON EVERY TIME THEY STEPPED OUT OF THEIR HOUSE
#3 THE BULLY DID POST CRUEL PICTURES ON HER OWN FACEBOOK..KATHLEEN WAS PROTECTED FROM THOSE PHOTOS BY HER FAMILY
#4 GET IT NOW?
Irene Hall
12:41 pm on Friday, January 13, 2012
AMEN, Cheryl!!!!! I wish people would get the facts straight before they posted!!!!
Marion
12:55 pm on Friday, January 13, 2012
Rest In Peace now Kathleen <3
Michelle Wolfson
1:46 pm on Friday, January 13, 2012
My heart really goes out to this family. I am a Patch columnist from all the way in New Jersey and saw this story and had to post.
I think the point is getting completely LOST in some of these replies. I know it has been said before, and in all honesty, is TOTALLY irrelevant, but the little girl did NOT have a Facebook page. Nowhere does it even insinuate that she did. The neighbor, Jennifer Petkov, posted this brutal harassment on HER Facebook page. it was simply seen by others who KNEW Kathleen including her Grandmother.
I think it is important that we read clearly and get all the facts possible before flying off the handle.
As I said, even if she had a Facebook, which right or wrong, many 9 and 10 year olds do- what Ms. Petkov did was simply cruel, inhumane, and undeserved. I personally think she deserves all of the negative attention that she has gotten from this incident.
I do feel bad for Ms. Petkov's daughter however, who not only has had to live with the fallout of her mother's thoughtless actions (including calls and threats to her home and her (now closed) Facebook page- but also because she obviously has despicable role models as parents. If this is what she has to look up to in life, Heaven help her!
Marie Eloise Phillips
2:18 pm on Friday, January 13, 2012
This is tragic. I saw the story to my yahoo homepage and watched the video. No adult can stoop as low as to bully a child who lost their mom to the same diesease that they have. I didn't know Kathleen or her family but no one should have to go through that. I'm just glad that she is no longer suffering and she is at peace with her mom. My thoughts and prayers go out to her friends and family.
terri rhyne
3:31 pm on Friday, January 13, 2012
as a father of two girl's and two granddaughter's i can't even imagine the torment the family went through, our prayers are with the family with our broken heart's we can only say bless the child and mother
terri rhyne
3:39 pm on Friday, January 13, 2012
it seem's like what ever someone does a horrible act there is a excuse why they done it but there is NO EXCUSE FOR WHAT MS PETKOV HAS DONE you are suppose to forgive the sin's of other's but it will be extremely hard to do
Barbara Tripp Jordan
7:06 pm on Friday, January 13, 2012
makes me so sad god bless her family and god bless this little angel ..R.I.P angel
Dave
10:22 pm on Saturday, January 14, 2012
Someday all the vile, disgusting deeds of the Petkov's will visit their own family tenfold. Society does NOT have to put up with such evil bullies as the Petkov's. Their day is coming.
Adam Clayton Draayer
10:39 pm on Thursday, February 2, 2012
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Adam Clayton Draayer
10:43 pm on Thursday, February 2, 2012
The bullying needs to stop everywhere ,only god can judge you ,not the bully...it never feels good after you put someone down or push them around ,thereafter there's always regret .and I'm sorry but by then it's to late .be nice ,it pays off to make someone smile ,you walk away knowing your making a difference.
Ryan James
10:16 pm on Tuesday, February 7, 2012
Kathleen you have a special place in my heart!!! You truly are a courageous little angel!!!
Mary
4:18 pm on Sunday, May 20, 2012
If your mad at this happening to her or someone you know then call or talk to the appropiate people who can pass the law on cyber-bullying and bullying. Dont let this angel and what happened to her family keep happening. Stand up and sign a petition to stop bullying in any form. Kathleen fly to the arms of your mother and be happy.
Donna
5:25 pm on Saturday, February 2, 2013
I think that the whole case of what these grown adults did toRebecca and Kathleen was so horrible, uncalled for, immature and hopefully will be dealt with with a nice punishment. Ultimately what you dish out comes back and slaps you 20x harder then what you dished out. There is something mentally wrong with them to have done this to the grandmother and Kathleen. May Kathleen now RIP and Ms. Rose realize that she is in no more pain and with her mom and Jesus. These people will be dealt with and ultimately have to face their maker at some point in time and he will be the judge as to what will happen.